aimeemarie123,
Good question, I usually do not go in for displays that cause people
. There have been times when I have tried for just that effect. ie: Having dinner with a mixed group of friends at a popular restaurant. The people a few tables away make denigrating comments about us. I winked at my very butch friend, wrapped my arms around her and initiated a full two minute lip lock. The other people left in disgust.
With my lady, never, I respect her far too much for that. Sure we hold hands and kiss in public. There are other things we do that while not overt
have the same effect on us as intimate physical contact but, no one else knows what's going on.
Sam