@JTT,
Arbitrary, pedantic, pompous arses like yourself make they worst teachers. If you had an ounce of humility and/or humane qualities, you'd almost be worth reading.
If you notice (and are able to comprehend), mine are suggestions and preferences ... not declarations of what is absolutely correct English .. and do not state what are 'the grammatical rules'.
Furthermore, we don't know too much about the context of what and why OP is posting -- is it prose vs spoken language.
You can disagree as you wish with my opinion and state your preference, but stop with holier-than-thou accusations. It's beyond tedious and only serve to discredit yourself.
Scrolling past you. I suggest you do the same seeing that you're so troubled.