@Buttermilk,
Quote:Well yes most of my anger is because he was promoted so much he found a job...
Well, your anger/jealousy should really cool down because Meeks didn't really get a modeling job, and he's been slapped with a federal charge that could keep him behind bars for quite some time.
Quote:Not hot! Jeremy Meeks, known across the Internet for his viral mugshot, is facing a federal gun charge.
On Thursday, a federal grand jury returned an indictment charging Meeks, 30, with being a felon in possession of a .45 caliber semiautomatic pistol.
Meeks was arrested June 18 on a gun charge in Stockton, Calif. Meeks told KXTV that he was a gang member and that he had a gun in the trunk of his car when arrested. He has a felony grand theft conviction from 2002.
San Joaquin County District Attorney's Office spokesman Robert Himelblau said that when a suspect ends up being charged by both the state and federal governments, the DA's office will often step aside because the feds have the "bigger hammer," meaning the suspect could likely serve more time if convicted. He could face up to 10 years in prison, according to the indictment.
Himelblau also said Meeks could be moved to Sacramento for federal court appearances and prosecution. But that decision will not be made until next week.
Currently, Meeks is being held in San Joaquin County Jail on $1.1 million bail.
http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2014/07/03/jeremy-meeks-indicted-federal-charge/12205621/
Did you really think that someone being held in jail, in lieu of over $1 million in bail, was likely to breeze out from behind bars so he could take a cushy modeling job?
And, apart from probably less than a handful of well known feminists, who have spoken out on the issue of physical attractiveness, often disagreeing with each other, since when does finding someone, male or female, simply good-looking, mean that you are "objectifying" them in a degrading manner? I find George Clooney a very attractive man, for instance, but I don't reduce him to being only a sex object, I also think he's a talented actor and director and producer, and an admirably committed social activist. And I neither want some feminist, nor you, telling me it's wrong to also view the man as attractive, because I think there is nothing wrong with acknowledging his physical appeal. How would that affect him negatively? How would it negatively affect any man, including Jeremy Meeks, to be viewed as good-looking or handsome? Whether it's fair or not, attractive people may enjoy more benefits and be viewed more positively than their more ordinary looking peers.
Quote:According to Dr. Gordon Patzer, who has concluded 3 decades of research on physical attractiveness, human beings are hard-wired to respond more favorably to attractive people: “Good-looking men and women are generally regarded to be more talented, kind, honest and intelligent than their less attractive counterparts.” Patzer contends, “controlled studies show people go out of their way to help attractive people—of the same sex and opposite sex—because they want to be liked and accepted by good-looking people.” Even studies of babies show they will look more intently and longer at attractive faces, Patzer argues.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/wired-success/201208/im-successful-because-im-beautiful-how-we-discriminate
When I first saw the photo of Jeremy Meeks, I didn't know it was a mug shot, and I didn't even notice the tattoos, but I did think he was good-looking--not particularly sexy, simply good-looking. Knowing more about him now, I still wouldn't change my opinion about that. But I also can't understand the dingbats who went all atwitter on the social media over him, or who'd actually donate money for his bail, simply on the basis of his mug shot, he's not
that good-looking, but I also don't see anything sinister or terrible in their doing that, and I hardly see it as an issue that feminists should bother to address, or that anyone should take seriously. These social media bandwagons seem to take on a life of their own, and people jump on them for all sorts of reasons, including boredom. So, if Meeks is the flavor of the week, and some silly people want to go ga-ga over him, what's the big deal, next week something else will be trending.
Quote:these same outspoken women can also educate the masses of women who objectify Meeks because how can feminist seek to bring equality if they don't speak up on behalf of men who are objectified by women?
I'm not sure you really understand what feminism is about at all--or what the basic aims of feminism are. You persist in seeing a rather diverse movement as a unified group which speaks with one voice--which is clearly not the case, there are considerable diversions of opinion among self-identified feminists, with relatively little basic agreement among them on most matters, and considerable differences in areas of interest.
And, while you keep finding fault with feminists, for not speaking up on behalf of men, you ignore the fact that, in terms of social activism, their primary concern, as feminists, has always been with the welfare and position and rights of women in our society, and equalizing the position of women in society, and there is no reason for them to shift focus and become humanists, rather than feminists, unless that's where they want to go as individuals.
Who are you to tell feminists what they should be addressing? As a member of a group, you might be able to exert some influence, through active participation and discussion with other feminists, but, since you are an outsider to this movement, I think it is incredibly arrogant of you to decide what positions other people, within that movement, should be taking, or what battles they should be fighting. Go fight for your own causes, form your own advocacy groups, rather than expecting any group, particularly one you are not a part of, and don't even support, to do that for you.
And stop being so envious of that jailbird simply because some females made a fuss over him on the social media, that's what passes for pop culture these days.