You know what? Forget about the thread, I actually made a mistake posing this question because either the people don't comprehend key phrases like "in my experience" or "women I've met" then this is a pointless endeavor.
First and foremost I do not, have not, and did not generalize women in this thread. All I have done was take the sum of my experiences and have narrated them down in this thread as something of a consistent issue in my life. I'm sorry you ladies took offense and somehow translated "my experiences" as if I'm saying all. Forgive me but I made a mistake in posing this question...Thanks for your participation. I'll probably just go out and have a beer with the fellas and just ask people I know outside chat forums.
Excuse the tone, but it's quite annoying that people took me saying "in my experience" as if I'm saying all women in (for example) the state of Rhode Island eact exactly like the women here in California. GEEZ for God's sake even scientific research has shown that people can make an analysis of common behavior of people based on sociological upbringing I don't see how I cannot make the same analysis about my own life?