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How much porn is abnormal or normal?

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Krumple
 
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Reply Thu 17 Apr, 2014 02:32 pm
@bobsal u1553115,
bobsal u1553115 wrote:

She put it up. I get to respond. Thats the contract here. If you can't abide, maybe you need to withdraw. No one gets to kick my dog and tell me to leave. She's(?) only confirmed my suspicions.

Multiple threads on the same subject
Changing facts
Misplaced outrage
Non responsive answers

I think you've mis-ID'd the Troll.


So do you have arm bands now? And how is your salute coming along? Did you decide on the one you wanted? Shaved your mustache into a square shape under your nose? Should I refer to you as the führer?
Krumple
 
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Reply Thu 17 Apr, 2014 02:56 pm
@bobsal u1553115,
bob, I have looked over her other threads and they don't seem to be in conflict at all. In fact the possible "cheating" and the "excessive porn" watching can be linked.

What I would like to know is where you got the idea that she is a POE? I haven't seen any inconsistencies in anything she has posted. Usually I pick up on inconsistent posts and can find them rather easily.

She does have a repeating theme though which leads to your confusion. She has mentioned on multiple occasions that she doesn't have anyone she can talk to or discuss these topics with. She is obviously going through some rocky moments and is trying to see what others might think or see in her situations.

You can call that what ever you want but you are just as guilty if she IS even guilty of anything. Your insistent need to flame her shows that you are looking for the same sort of attention.

To me it really doesn't matter if the case someone is presenting is the absolute truth anyways. Because no matter if it is true or not, it is still from their perspective which will always be a little biased or have missing data. Not only that but she could even be asking on another person's behalf. Not saying this is the case but it is still possible.

Regardless of all that, I like to take the case that what is said is always how it is. What else do I have to go on? I don't really know her or anything about her life to really know otherwise. So I take what is said to be how it really is. That might be naive but that is the whole point of the forum.

But then again I am also a person who always grants absolute trust in everyone until they do or say something that should make that trust misplaced.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Thu 17 Apr, 2014 05:15 pm
@Krumple,
As a Jew I find your trivializing of Hitler and Nazis highly offensive.
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bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Thu 17 Apr, 2014 05:20 pm
@Krumple,
Thats a reasonable statement and well put. And that's whats missing in his/her interaction with me and glitter. This isn't about glitter and my personalities. If someone puts a proposition up its understood it needs to stand questioning.

By the way, I am a Lutheran but I hope you got my point about calling folks Nazis and such.
Ragman
 
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Reply Thu 17 Apr, 2014 05:41 pm
@bobsal u1553115,
... And his point (and mine) is the indiscriminate use and reference to Nazis, Hitler and the like ... is highly offensive to Jews and other minorities whose relatives were lost during the period of time pre-WWII and during WWII. The affect of the over-usage hits many like a gut punch. I strongly doubt that is your intention.

This criticism or motivation for this might be his attempt at consciousness raising. This usage of Hitler and Nazi reference happens far too often and is gratuitous and unnecessary. Can you not make your point by dimply calling the behavior dictatorial?

Of course, referring to these words can be appropriate when you're referring to historic Germany, Nazis and Hitler is understandable. It is odious when simply referring to dictatorial or apparent fascist behavior.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Thu 17 Apr, 2014 10:34 pm
@Ragman,
Ragman,

Using those terms as flippantly as they've come to be used in the last eight years or so has come to bother me highly. Its disrespectful and insulting to 10's of millions of dead and those left behind to grieve. I'm glad to know you're another who's tired of it.
Ragman
 
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Reply Thu 17 Apr, 2014 11:02 pm
@bobsal u1553115,
Thanks so much for sharing what you shared. you'll pardon me if I seemed to refer to you as the originator of that Nazi reference. It was directed at Krumple and anyone else who uses this odious reference when it is not as part of a discussion directly relating to this sort of history.

I didn't mean to pull the thread off topic..but that issue hits so close to home. I think I'd feel the same way regardless of my birth religion. Such a dark blot on the history of humanity.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Fri 18 Apr, 2014 08:06 am
@Ragman,
I knew who you meant. S'OK!
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miagreen
 
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Reply Fri 18 Apr, 2014 09:50 am
This is ridiculous! I thank those who took the time to give me advise without knowing me personally and who have defended me, I truly appreciate it! I cannot believe my questions have brought out so much hatred and scornful remarks. I apologize to those who had to read the nasty metaphorical comments made by users here. There was truly no need to be so hateful.

I have no need to lie about who I am, with that said, I have no need to defend WHO I am. What I write here is the pure honest truth about what I am currently going through. I cannot control who believes me or not, and I threw my story out there searching for some kind of clarity because sometimes when we're going through bad moments, we cannot see clear even if the truth is right in front of our eyes. I never went through anything like this in my life. I don't know how to move forward, if to be radical in my decision or not because I have a lot to think about, my children for example and the fact that I believe in my marriage bows.

There's no need to stone me with your insults (BOB & GLITTER).... If you don't believe me or distrust me, that's fine but there's no need to get so plain nasty and hurtful. I guess it makes you both feel better to hurt someone else and hide behind this forum. You're not mandated to comment on my posts, you could ignore it and move on if it bothers you so much.




Krumple
 
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Reply Fri 18 Apr, 2014 09:59 am
@miagreen,
miagreen wrote:

This is ridiculous! I thank those who took the time to give me advise without knowing me personally and who have defended me, I truly appreciate it! I cannot believe my questions have brought out so much hatred and scornful remarks. I apologize to those who had to read the nasty metaphorical comments made by users here. There was truly no need to be so hateful.

I have no need to lie about who I am, with that said, I have no need to defend WHO I am. What I write here is the pure honest truth about what I am currently going through. I cannot control who believes me or not, and I threw my story out there searching for some kind of clarity because sometimes when we're going through bad moments, we cannot see clear even if the truth is right in front of our eyes. I never went through anything like this in my life. I don't know how to move forward, if to be radical in my decision or not because I have a lot to think about, my children for example and the fact that I believe in my marriage bows.

There's no need to stone me with your insults (BOB & GLITTER).... If you don't believe me or distrust me, that's fine but there's no need to get so plain nasty and hurtful. I guess it makes you both feel better to hurt someone else and hide behind this forum. You're not mandated to comment on my posts, you could ignore it and move on if it bothers you so much.


I don't think you have to worry about bob any more. I caught his irony. That he had no problem teasing you, or calling you out but as soon as I made a very vague hitler reference about how "critical" he was being about the whole thing, he got offended by my comment.

I find it ironic that he has no problem telling others he is offended by a comment but has no problem dishing it out to offend others. It was a well played card and I think he got the point. Nothing else needed to be said. I wasn't trying to be cruel to him, I was only trying to hold up a mirror so he could see himself.

I'm pretty sure he got it. I left it at that and he hasn't said anything else. I feel it was settled. You don't need to worry about your comments being derailed again. It is clear you are not here to put out nonsense. You just want another perspective on some concerns of yours. It should be taken as that. Sincere.

I should also apologize for hitting Bob below the belt on that comment but it was necessary. And I should apologize to you miagreen for ruining your thread with all this other unnecessary bits.
BillRM
 
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Reply Fri 18 Apr, 2014 11:58 pm
Amusing footnote Denny internet filtering company seems to had trigger on this thread as it would not show this thread content instead taking me to the firm website a numbers of time.. Other threads including the rape thread did not have this reaction.

Needed to boot up TOR to bypass this nonsense.
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bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Sun 20 Apr, 2014 07:14 pm
@miagreen,
Your husband masturbates daily to porn. You get laid twice a day. You know your husband is not cheating on you. You want to talk about porn in a superficial way: is it "normal" or not.

So what IS the problem you wanted to post about?

You've used all sorts of personal slurs about glitterbag and myself. Find one thing we've accused you of as a person.

I say this whole thread has no problems. I say it seems like some sort of bragging. I say it all sounds like an adolescent giving us old geezers a rise. I say it sounds like no woman writes or talks about sex/porn.

Thats my opinion. I'm discussing this, not calling anybody names
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bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Sun 20 Apr, 2014 07:27 pm
@Krumple,
Calling me Hitler or Nazi is not the same thing as me discussing this topic and not calling anybody names. Your thinking that Nazi and Hitler snipes is perfectly fine is totally screwed up and I was joined in that opinion by another.
Upwards of 20,000,000 dead compares in in what way? Shame.
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Romeo Fabulini
 
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Reply Sun 20 Apr, 2014 07:39 pm
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MiaGreen said: he masturbates EVERYDAY! We have sex every day as well and we've been married for 19 years now

My pocket calculator tells me that comes to 13,870 ejaculations, he must be a one-man Niagara Falls..Smile
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Sun 20 Apr, 2014 08:09 pm
@Romeo Fabulini,
Add that to my list.
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miagreen
 
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Reply Mon 21 Apr, 2014 10:06 am
@Krumple,
Krumple, you don't need to apologize to me. You did not ruin my thread. These other two did and really, I could care less what their opinion is of my post or of me.
I'm grateful that you stand by my side and defend me. THANK YOU!
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