Apparently, being that you say you read my previous post, you probably tend to read the newspaper but cannot understand the news.
I am trying to give our marriage the benefit of the doubt because I never caught him with his hands in the cookie jar. YES I AM DEVASTATED if you really want to throw salt on the open wound but I love our family, him and I don't want to give up so easy. In regards to my sex life, We've always had great sex, two, three and even five times in one day every day! YES EVERY DAY! Even now because our attraction is still there, thankfully! My husband is HOT! We're both fitness trainers and we thrive on our health and physique. I'm not ashamed of my sexual desires. This forum was created to help out people like me looking for good advise because when you're going through a harsh bump in the road and have no one to talk to, all you have left are strangers who hopefully take it upon themselves to help.
Neither you nor this Bob person seem to have any conscious or heart! You come into my post and instead of helping with kind words you laugh at me and my situation and ridicule me with name calling. I hope to God you never have to face a problem like this one with your better half.
I didn't ask you to come in here and believe me or not, nor did I come in here crying for sympathy, I came in here and wrote my personal story to find a breath of hope from stranger's advice.