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Porn - degrading to women? or"the all you can eat salad bar"

 
 
Letty
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 12:44 pm
May I interject here? I realize the article supplied by the following link may be a bit long, but should you have the time, it is well worth the reading:

http://www.paulgraham.com/say.html
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David Henry
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 12:45 pm
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What I consider degrading others don't.


So what!!...if we{rational people..unless Ted Bundy's views are as good as yours} aren't the arbiters of dysfunctional, then who is?
Despite your protests, you strike me as a moral relativist, IOW, you should take responsibility for your thoughts otherwise they have no value...just as thinking of murder as immoral is worthless if we don't act to prevent it, encourage the attitude and restrain offenders.


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This is why sometimes what I personally consider degrading will govern only my own actions and I will not attempt to declare it a moral absolute.


Then you haven't understood the notion of what a moral absolute is nor the subsequent actions required.

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I don't think you should be able to determine who is "dysfunctional" and whose rights should be over-ruled.


But my criteria is OBJECTIVE/intersubjective...and you and most others agree with it.

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. Personally, I think your objections are not simply sourced in health concerns.


They are based on the spiritual concerns, ie, I don't like people engaging in degrading behaviour and don't want it encouraged via commercial sale.
My disgust is based both on the physical aspects and the spiritual aspects...it's not my fault YOU'VE decided that I look down upon these people and want to punish them because of some defect you assume I have.
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David Henry
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 12:51 pm
Joeblow wrote:
David Henry, My example is quite real, and most sincere. Same principles entirely as far as I can tell.

If you still maintain that nosepicking is immoral, do you posit that it should be treated like murder?


I'm not receiving pornospam featuring nose picking...so I'm not upset by it.
What is the disgusting aspect associated with picking your nose in private...A=nothing.
What is the disgusting aspect of AS2 in private or public, the spirtual decay and attempt to pass it off as just another behaviour amongst many.

See you guys on Sunday.
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rufio
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 12:55 pm
Intersubjective? You mean, majority rule? That changes all the time... it's hardly objective.
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Craven de Kere
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 01:13 pm
David Henry wrote:

So what!!...if we{rational people..unless Ted Bundy's views are as good as yours} aren't the arbiters of dysfunctional, then who is?


David, you have yet to establish that you are a "rational" person whose sensitivities and preferences should override that of others. You've repeated it many times and seem to be convinced that your position is positively almighty but have not, however, established it.

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Despite your protests, you strike me as a moral relativist, IOW, you should take responsibility for your thoughts otherwise they have no value...just as thinking of murder as immoral is worthless if we don't act to prevent it, encourage the attitude and restrain offenders.


David, again you are conjuring up straw men.

I do think murder is immoral.

I do not think that A2M is immoral.

This explains why we agree, in large part, on how murder should be addressed and do not agree on how sex acts that disgust you should be addressed.

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Then you haven't understood the notion of what a moral absolute is nor the subsequent actions required.


Actually David, Joe addressed this with you.

I acknowledge moral absolutes. I just don't think you've stumbled upon one in your "witnessing" of the sexual acts that perturb you so.

In other words, I do think there are moral absolutes. I do not consider this to be one of them.

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But my criteria is OBJECTIVE/intersubjective...and you and most others agree with it.


No, your criteria is simply a matter of your subjective preference.

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They are based on the spiritual concerns, ie, I don't like people engaging in degrading behaviour and don't want it encouraged via commercial sale.


Spiritual objectivity eh? <smiles>

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My disgust is based both on the physical aspects and the spiritual aspects...it's not my fault YOU'VE decided that I look down upon these people and want to punish them because of some defect you assume I have.


Huh? You said their consent should be "overruled" not me. I simply disagreed with your decision that your personal ick factor should override their liberties.

I see it as a voyeuristic fixation on other people's sex lives.
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Joeblow
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 01:24 pm
David Henry, in referring to nose picking wrote:
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So you also agree that it's disgusting, presumably by the same "objective" criteria I use, and yet you're not prepared{too scared} to declare it immoral aka wrong....curious, but typical of todays youth.


David Henry later wrote:
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I'm not receiving pornospam featuring nose picking...so I'm not upset by it.
What is the disgusting aspect associated with picking your nose in private...A=nothing.
What is the disgusting aspect of AS2 in private or public, the spirtual decay and attempt to pass it off as just another behaviour amongst many.


David Henry, Isnt it an immoral act regardless of where it occurs? Based on your other remarks, I must presume that you consider nosepicking immoral, same as A2M sex.

If I now read you right, it upsets you less because you don't receive spam regarding it. That part at least I can understand, but that's not what you've been arguing, is it? This thread has taken a lot of twists and turns, perhaps I'll go reread it.

See you Sunday maybe.
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joefromchicago
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 03:26 pm
David Henry wrote:
Despite your protests, you strike me as a moral relativist....

Actually, the only person who comes close to being a moral relativist is you, DH. Your insistence on crafting a moral code upon your own personal "ick factor" makes your morality nothing more than your own subjective preference.

David Henry wrote:
But my criteria is OBJECTIVE/intersubjective...and you and most others agree with it.

It's quite possible that most people agree with your position on oral-anal contact, but that doesn't mean they agree with you based upon your "objective" criteria.

David Henry wrote:
They are based on the spiritual concerns, ie, I don't like people engaging in degrading behaviour and don't want it encouraged via commercial sale.

That's an interesting point, worthy of its own thread.

EDIT: Added link.
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joefromchicago
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 03:27 pm
Joeblow: It's all very simple:
You can pick your friends
And you can pick your nose
But you can't pick your friend's nose.

Honestly, when will people learn?
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dlowan
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 03:30 pm
David Henry wrote:
dlowan wrote:
"For or against faeces"!

That phrase delineates, with what appears to be deliberately satirical intent, the ridiculousness of David Henry's position on this, as nothing else could have!

You're pulling our collective legses, DH, aren't ya now??? C'mon, fess up!


So in your mind, I'm a morally upstanding citizen when I announce that I have no opinion on murder?

Serious question....would you allow me to A2M you?...if not, why not?

Being open minded doesn't include acts of obvious deviancy.


Lol! How did murder insert itself into here? (Oops)

You would have to make some sort of very good case that coprophagy or A2M (if they are different) are in any way equivalent to murder before your question on murder is worthy of an answer. Since the gulf between the acts is so great, answering as though there was any relationship is acting as though your argument (so far as I am able to discern one in that question) is in any way valid.

Would I allow you to A2M me? Why is that relevant? There are a number of things, both sexually and otherwise, that I will not do - though if consenting adults choose to do them, I have no qualm. As it happens, I am not especially fond of kissing - finding it icky - ought I to be fulminating here about the unnaturalness and deviancy of sharing spit - germ-laden as it is? I would have the same reasonableness on my side if I did as you have on yours.

Almost by defintion, being open-minded IS likely to include acts of "deviancy" in the minds of some, or even many, isn't it? Since, if one is defined as open-minded, it can only be thus defined in relativity to a set of minds which are seens as more "closed". Chances are therefore high that the open ones will not be perturbed by, and call deviant, some numbers of behaviours that the closed ones are and do.
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dlowan
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 03:34 pm
David Henry wrote:
ehBeth wrote:
I should?


No problems....I now realize you're probably a bored housewife fantasizing that she has a clue.
Back to the chit-chat forums dear Razz


Oh boy. Feeling pretty desperate, aren't we? You know, I find that kind of (pseudo)-tactic pretty much as disgusting as you find A2M - only I do feel that intellectual coprophagy does more long-term harm than the other kind.
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dlowan
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 03:52 pm
Happy, Bear?
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dlowan
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 03:53 pm
David Henry wrote:
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False. I have stated that I do not agree with the use of personal distaste as a criteria for what others should do.


But if my distaste is always subjective, what is the objective criteria one applies to this specific issue?

Your problem is that you think you can stand neutral in terms of action, and be in a morally defensible position.

Is Charles Manson the arbiter of right and wrong?..NO, thus rational people determine an objective criteria...IOW, you cannot dismiss my disgust as subjective if it conforms to an objective criteria....it's merely the objective assertion of a particular individual.

You've acknowledged that people other than me dislike this behaviour, but are too frightened to take the next logical step of it's total rejection from all rational countries.
The result of your confusion is in effect moral relavistism with a practical outcome of the commercial availability of this wholly degrading behaviour.

So you've admitted that you don't like the act, but you don't seem to want to reproach people for this behaviour and drop it from commercial sale.

Now when you learn to think productively, you can continue with your petty snipes boy.


Frightened? DH, you are gonna have to stop what appears to be projection of your feelings onto others.

Where on earth did you get "frightened" from?
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dlowan
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 03:57 pm
David Henry wrote:
My views aren't prejudiced, they're actually intersubjective, ie, most of you agree with it....what you don't agree with is the idea that I have the moral right to demand proscription....but this is based on your confusion and laziness, ie, just as there's no confusion over murder, there's also no delay in implementing the appropriate moral response.


Yes - and once upon a time the majority of Americans believed that black people were semi-human and had no rights over their own bodies and lives. Later, many Americans were repulsed by the thought of having to share rest-rooms and other facilities with them. Many South African whites once thought it immoral to share medical equipment with black people.

Many once thought it unnatural for women to vote, or be permitted to work in any but menial jobs.

Would you like me to go on?
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ehBeth
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 08:32 pm
I'm almost feeling bad for egging DH on earlier.
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dlowan
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 09:14 pm
Why? It is not like he argues with integrity - "petty snipes, boy", plus all the other gratuitous insults and such? - deserves egg on the face.
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ehBeth
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 09:15 pm
almost
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dlowan
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 09:20 pm
Mind you, a good rush of justified argument slamming makes my fur shine.
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dlowan
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 09:24 pm
Is that wrong?

it is, isn't it....
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blueveinedthrobber
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 09:28 pm
dlowan wrote:
Happy, Bear?


always...
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ehBeth
 
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Thu 13 May, 2004 09:29 pm
there was malice aforethought. i knew what game i was playing. i don't believe DH did.

I don't feel responsible for his poor position, or his inability to defend it, but I could have left things as they were. Is that a moral issue? Shocked

hmmmm, and if others enjoyed watching it, was it wrong?
was he a willing participant if he didn't know the game?
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