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So I did it... Finally!

 
 
Reply Sat 9 Nov, 2013 04:27 pm
I have to start coming back on here more, I've been so preoccupied that I've missed out on a lot.

But for those of you that know a lot of what was going on before... I finally did it, finally stood up for myself... Decided I deserved better and I have asked for a divorce. Sad it took me so many years and lies. But everything happens for a reason.

He's staying at his mothers and occasionally on the couch because I work nights and he watches the kids. But for the first time in about three years, I finally feel alive... Free.... Liberated.

So to all of you that told me to have the strength to do it, I appreciate it more than you'll ever know! And for those of you that are friends with me on fb, we've been keeping it hush until things are closer to being finalized. It's easier to keep as much drama out of it as possible..

My kids are my biggest priority and I am trying to so all this with as little effect in them as possible.... I would do anything for them.

So yay!! :-)
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roger
 
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Reply Sat 9 Nov, 2013 04:33 pm
@Crazielady420,
Good for you, and happy to see you back.
jcboy
 
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Reply Sat 9 Nov, 2013 04:40 pm
@Crazielady420,
Razz

Post the video of the big boobs Smile
Crazielady420
 
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Reply Sat 9 Nov, 2013 04:48 pm
@roger,
Thank you roger
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Crazielady420
 
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Reply Sat 9 Nov, 2013 04:49 pm
@jcboy,
Haha you were supposed to pay attention to the singing, damn boobs always get in the way lol
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Sat 9 Nov, 2013 04:58 pm
Crazylady, I love you - I mean that in the clearest way, that I appreciate all the stuff over all this time that you have worked through, and would hug if that wouldn't put you off if we met.

You will still have whim whams. So do we all but you are moving ahead.

I'm so glad to read this. Thank you for telling us.

Usually I just call you CL, since I have never thought you were crazy.

Crazielady420
 
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Reply Sat 9 Nov, 2013 05:15 pm
@ossobuco,
Thank you. . You guys have always been there for me, I started coming to this site when I was 18 and I have gotten a lot of amazing advice these last ten years.

And a hug is always accepted lol

Thanks for thinking I wasn't crazy, CL always works. My actual name is Christine :-)
ossobuco
 
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Reply Sat 9 Nov, 2013 05:28 pm
Ok, Christine. I'm Jo. I'm in no way an appropriate advisor. But let me guess, better than some.
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jcboy
 
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Reply Sun 10 Nov, 2013 10:36 am
@Crazielady420,
You only live once, no sense in being in a miserable relationship, glad you made the right move for you and the kids.

Now post the video of the boobs please Razz
jespah
 
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Reply Sun 10 Nov, 2013 11:00 am
@Crazielady420,
Christine!! Smile

We should do a gathering. Egad, it's been far, far too long.
Crazielady420
 
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Reply Sun 10 Nov, 2013 02:19 pm
@jcboy,
Thanks and the boob video is on YouTube lol
Crazielady420
 
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Reply Sun 10 Nov, 2013 02:21 pm
@jespah,
I am always up for a gathering! I've missed most of them!!
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jcboy
 
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Reply Sun 10 Nov, 2013 03:06 pm
@Crazielady420,
I just watched the video again, you sing very nicely. I'm not sure what the attraction gay men have to big boobs but you sure have them Razz
Mame
 
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Reply Sun 10 Nov, 2013 07:41 pm
@jcboy,
where's the video??
jcboy
 
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Reply Sun 10 Nov, 2013 07:44 pm
@Mame,
I wasn't going to post it until Christine said it was okay, but her boobs could knock someone's head off Razz
jcboy
 
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Reply Sun 10 Nov, 2013 07:52 pm
@jcboy,
Okay I asked first and she didn't mind, she sings very nice and her boobs would probably knock holes in the wall Smile

Crazielady420
 
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Reply Sun 10 Nov, 2013 08:02 pm
@jcboy,
Yup , my boobs are the reason I can't run :-)
jcboy
 
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Reply Sun 10 Nov, 2013 08:58 pm
@Crazielady420,
If I fell in that cleavage I’d need a Puerto Rican to pull me out Smile
ossobuco
 
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Reply Sun 10 Nov, 2013 09:08 pm
@jcboy,
Gee, not again!

Meantime, I still have a lot of Marco's green chiles sauce to deal with.
jcboy
 
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Reply Sun 10 Nov, 2013 09:09 pm
@ossobuco,
Oh he won't be coming back here anytime soon.
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