@lisa1471,
Lisa, it may seem a silly question, but do you use this site as some sort of research/inspiration for writing stories, or something similar?
Looking back over your posts, it seems as if the common theme seems to be mind games between male and female.
Here's a link from your first post, over two years ago.....
http://able2know.org/topic/178068-1#post-4746844
And the posts in between seem to be pretty similar.
Is all this stuff actually happening?