@redstripe,
Well, if she's turned down rich guys and values attraction over money, she wouldn't mind if you were penniless, would she?
I have no idea of your situation, nor your life plan. It may be that you're ideal for one another, and you will happily do what you can financially, in return for a lifelong companion etc.
But it was you who posted here with obvious doubts and suspicions.
You need to work these things out, and fast. Someone who cries and gets mad because you mention your concerns comes across as a little controlling to me. That's just my opinion, of course.
I don't wish to influence anything too much, as I don't know either of yoh, but I think you know what you need to sort out.