Do you think these guys are just telling you they're gay?
Jer wrote:Do you think these guys are just telling you they're gay?
I thought that too, but chose to be nice.. :wink:
I don't know animosity and she's made no effort to make her posts easy to read - so I wasn't too concerned about being 'nice'...
I don't really think guys would be telling her that they were gay when they weren't it was kind of the obvious joke that was hanging over her posts.
Jer wrote:Do you think these guys are just telling you they're gay?
nope .. most of them i dont even approach cuz i'll find out sumwhere else that theyre gay and then i'll just drop the whole thing ... no one i've been interested in has eva told me thyre gay lol i'll just see an attractive guy or speak to one and think yeah .. he's cool and then i'll over hear a conversation or read an email by mistake and find out that theyre gay lol ... it never gets to the point where they have to tell me lolz .. cuz i go off them the minute i find out theyre gay lolz .. its not like i'm gonna pursue anythin ..
where are you meeting guys? there aren't that many gay men in throughout the population...so I'm curious how you seem to be finding all of them.
Jer wrote:I don't know animosity and she's made no effort to make her posts easy to read - so I wasn't too concerned about being 'nice'...
I don't really think guys would be telling her that they were gay when they weren't it was kind of the obvious joke that was hanging over her posts.
u dont find my posts eay to read? why might that be?
lazy writing...makes things less clear than they could be.
How 'bout using the personals and specifying what you want? That way, you'll get what you want and won't invest time and affection in men who turn out to be unattainable.
jespah wrote:How 'bout using the personals and specifying what you want? That way, you'll get what you want and won't invest time and affection in men who turn out to be unattainable.
Thanks for the advice but i think i'll pass on the PERSONALS, anyway i have no problem with men being interested in me per se...its more an issue of me not being interested those who are ... who knows maybe its one of those subconcious "wanting what you cant" have things...its getting a bit old now though..and i think after this long discussion i will NEVER FALL FOR ANOTHER GAY MAN AGAIN, for fear of coming on here again and airing my dirty laundry...THATS WOT U GET FOR BEING BORED ONLINE on a TUES NIGHT hehehe .. anyone know how to delete this topic????
jespah,
Good suggestion - online dating can be quite good.
animosity,
Why would you want to delete the topic. I believe everyone had fun and lots of people probably learned a thing or two here and there (ie. the definition of "metrosexual").
My welcome to you is late - Welcome! I still feel kinda of weird welcoming people here because I'm so new myself. It's a good place to play, learn and for "airing my dirty laundry...on a tues night"...
All the best in your search.
Cheers.
Maybee she'z hangin at the gay clubz n only wit gay guyz and stuff yoo now WOT I'm sayin n stuff like that huh?
Damn that's so annoying.
Hey, animosity, my son is also a 20-yr-old law student, and I don't think on past experience that he's gay - where are you studying!!!???? He needs a good woman (as well as his Mum)
