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How to ask a guy out?!

 
 
Reply Sun 1 Sep, 2013 06:33 am
Ok, so there's this guy in my year and I really like him. I've liked him for ages but I haven't had the guts to ask him out. We get along well, we talk in the hallways and sit next to each other in a few classes but I'm not sure what way he feels abut me cuz I don't want to get rejected. I don't want to ask a friend to ask cuz he might think this is a joke. Im serious, PLEASE give me some good advice! Smile x
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jespah
 
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Reply Sun 1 Sep, 2013 06:36 am
@sophie2001,
"Hi Dan (or whatever his name is)! I'm getting a soda after class. I'd love your company."
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FOUND SOUL
 
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Reply Sun 1 Sep, 2013 04:17 pm
@sophie2001,
He may think the same thing of you.

I don't think you should get your friends involved either.

Why not try when talking in the hallway, bringing something up where you both laugh, and lightly touch him on the shoulder and smile. See his reaction in other words. People respond to touch as affectionate . You may confuse him but the more you do it, you may find he may ask you out whilst in the same breathe, you are not risking being rejected, it's light flirting and can be taken both ways.
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Brandon9000
 
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Reply Mon 2 Sep, 2013 12:20 am
The standard method is to make it blatantly obvious you want to be asked out without saying so, and, optionally, to touch his arm for a moment.
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CoastalRat
 
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Reply Tue 3 Sep, 2013 12:31 pm
@sophie2001,
As a last resort, just walk up behind him in the hallway, spin him around and before he can react plant a kiss on his lips. When finished, say "I've wanted to do that for the longest time," and walk away. I'm betting he asks you out within 24 hours.

PS: You may want to verify that there are no teachers around, as your school may have rules against this. Also, having a good lawyer helps since this could be considered an assault. But any red-blooded straight male would never file charges. lol

Ok, I'm just kidding about the above. In all seriousness, just ask him. Maybe he is shy and insecure around girls and would jump at the chance to go out with you. (This worked well for my wife back when we first met.)
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Mon 9 Sep, 2013 03:38 am
I thought your mother just died. Cant you stop this whining about a boy for a few days?
Lordyaswas
 
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Reply Mon 9 Sep, 2013 03:42 am
@ossobuco,
No, her mother dying was sooooo last week!

Actually, I viewed that thread with a lot of suspicion, but didn't jump in just in case it was true. Now though.....
OsBride
 
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Reply Mon 9 Sep, 2013 05:15 am
@sophie2001,
You can simply exchange phn number first than start text so you will get comfortable to ash him out.
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chai2
 
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Reply Mon 9 Sep, 2013 06:07 am
@Lordyaswas,
Lordyaswas wrote:

No, her mother dying was sooooo last week!




seriously, what better way to get over a dead mother than to ask a guy out?

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ossobuco
 
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Reply Mon 9 Sep, 2013 08:34 am
Ah, that's what I get for looking at a2k in the middle of the night.

Sophie hadn't just posted about the boy - that was back on Sept. 1, apparently just before her mother died.

My bad.

I apologize, Sophie.
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sophie2001
 
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Reply Mon 9 Sep, 2013 10:05 am
@ossobuco,
I can't believe your saying that. I sent that post a few hours before I knew my mum had died! Has anyone that close to you just died (a week ago)? If yes, you would know how it feels. Can you just be nice to me? I'm only 12 and my mums dead. Think before you say anything else please. I'm alone in the world and all you can say is about me whining about a boy?!
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Setanta
 
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Reply Mon 9 Sep, 2013 10:11 am
If you're 12 years old, first, you should not be here; second, at your age, you don't need to be asking boys to go out with you.
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