@izzythepush,
How dare nothing.
I just got off another forum which scolded me after deleting my post. Ummmm sorry but okay it's one thing to have my post quietly removed without explanation (this being a post I spent an hour writing, you know the super long kind), quite another to be told that some moderation was done, still other what they decided to do.
I would mostly prefer no-judgement moderation. Remove the offending post, leave no bans or marks against them, just "we decided to remove one of your posts" with the option to disable notifications. Simple. I don't care.
Nah, we've not only removed your post, but decided to tell you that the reason behind it was "Subverting the Forum's Mission." I'm sorry, what kind of bullshit is that. Some sort of hippie crap that we should all join hands and love each other (I told them to **** off with their mission, and that I hate Bahai. I'm still stressed but it gave me immense pleasure).
Nah, people disagree. This is the real world. Which brings me to the point. 1 Corinthians tells us (after telling us (a) gays aren't allowed in the kingdom along with drunks and cheats, and (b) that's what some of you were, but Jesus washed us in his blood and redeemed us. Now Christianity disagrees whether this means a once for all sin (sorry body you get one chance) or that you will continue to sin, but personally it's pretty clear that we are only human and will continue to sin) that everything is permissable, but not everything is good for you. This means, yes you can have a gay old time. You can also contract AIDS if you have unsafe sex.
How dare nothing. Don't get outraged when someone tells you they don't think people ought to be going around getting AIDS. You may not think they have the right to an opinion, but they do. Now I personally don't care so much, because I'm alot colder than him. Cold or hot, better that than lukewarm. To ghoulishly act in favor of something, without telling anyone that it may kill them.
It's possible, perhaps, that because he helps AIDS victims, he understands that gay marriage is a sort of fool's paradise. That he disapproves precisely because unless these unions are simply about togetherness, they are likely to contract AIDS. Now, I don't know enough about AIDS to know if gay sex is an automatic risk, or if two people who don't have AIDS can be in a committed monogamous gay relationship. I do know that much of the gay movement has a fair amount of infidelity, and honestly I think infidelity is a far bigger risk factor. But maybe I'm wrong. In any case, someone who works with ppl like this is giving you some Wisdom here. You are free to choose Lady Folly, of course. But you should know about the skeletons she has in her basement.