Mistress's grown son

LOL. Gotta love your sense of humour.

I guess we can put a positive spin on anything - if we try hard enough.

Your point being?

We don't know if you are serious or being sarcastic about this.

If your husband getting involved with his mistress' son is OK with you, then why ask us if it's OK?

If it were me, this whole thing would not have gotten this far. Three years is a long time. YOU are now the "other woman."

I doubt it she wish she could wake up wth him.Its only sex its his ex mistress and I was seeing how it looked lending something of his to her son to wear.

What if you owned it...

You know, he loved the sex with you so much he didn't need to stray.

Well its not like she getting anything out of him.this have nothing do with sex but he offered to lend something to her son that's grown.he doesn't know anything about them.

What if I owned what?

it's not about sex. It's about the relationship they have.

What do the lending have do with her seriously? His personality is nice.He and this woman cut off ties said they not seeing each other no more.

Does he have a relationship with her son that doesn't include her?

But all they have is sex though its no relationship at all.

So, why did you bother posting the story?

Lisa.

In my opinion. A man strays because he can, he is allowed to, or because he is un-happy in his marriage and instead of doing the right thing, walk first then do what he wants, he cheats.

Because you know that he is doing this, the situation has to be that you are allowing him.

I understand that your thoughts are he sleeps with you every night, that is how you justify what he is doing, in that knowing, that means he loves you right? I get the feeling that you are NOT ok with it really, you are justifying.

If you were really OK with it, there would be no threads on the subject matter here.

Relationships take work, just like anything in life.. When I said "own it" I am talking about intimacy, between the pair of you, freezing her out. Saying NO... as in no more to him, sleeping with her. Own it..

No to be honest her son wasn't around hes grown but he just Cb.Hes only met him a couple of times see what I mean! The son don't even know they're having sex.He was being nice he told her he was proud of him cause hes doing things so he offered him his jacket.So its genuine right? He knows her grown daughter he was close to her.

If it's just about sex, how does he know she has a son and that the son needs clothing and what size the son is?

I hope you know that makes no sense.

Elaboration would be good here right about now re the above.

I only knew of him cheating because he was bragging to some people.he didn't keep it a secret. That was his immaturity.Only because shes little older a lot people know about them.some don't speak to her.

He knows her children he didn't personally know her son.they belong same church and he had to wear something with short notice.In front of others he just said he have a such and such for him to wear.They met they're almost same size and my husband told her since we're same size he can wear mine.