@sweeetiexo,
And as you waited for the words, they never came, the moment lingered. Will it ever be the same?
All normal emotions you're going through, but in the grand scheme of things, it's nothing. The baboon(s) here who can judge the prudence of your relationship by a wedding and work hours, and advising you to put your relationship on the chopping block are just that, baboons. Don't fret, if your relationship is strong, you'll have many, many weddings and various private events to enjoy together in your future that ensures gallons of water and heaps of towel for nursing each others mutual hangover.
P.S. to the sages here: Have any sages here wondered if this could be a long distance like relationship?