@farmerman,
Annoying things are good for the soul fm, Hence hair shirts through DIY.
Lola once gleefully effused--"Whips up girls--they're begging for it". I had been goading her.
DIY is the MOR vesrion with naturally concomitant subtleties of gradation. The pain is spread out over time rather than being a sudden shock or a series of sudden shocks in a short space of time. Apart from accidents I mean. Which are more common than is generally known. On the first warm spring Sunday afternoon there are ambulances coming from all directions. It's like a war zone in A&E. And DIY increases unemployment.
I feel pretty sure the Lola was not thinking of the girls holding a whip up in the air. The idea is to bring them down as sharpish as maybe on the collective bare backside of men. MEN""".
DIY is more like Chinese water torture. Thankfully the onset of decrepitude saves us. Or those of us who repent.