@buffdude08,
Just because I'm direct doesn't mean I'm not a woman. Your dads been married six times, he is not the guy to depend on, you should seriously consider getting advice from your mother. My sons were able to talk to me, however conversation did not include which woman would be the easiest boink object. I know it's hard to imagine your mother as a single girl in high school or college, take a chance on mom, you might be surprised. (Ok, 5 more minutes of my life)