My room mate has a ladover that is with lots of guys, Would it be ok to ask him about being with her

Things were different, I guess, back in the early 80's when a guy could have his pick on some pretty nice blue-collar girls. Buy a beer or two, talk about the local crap, say something to the effect of "Hey, wanna go mess around in my car or shall I get us a room?" and off you'd go.
One guy had a tricked out van with a bar and a nice mattress. He'd loan it out to his regular friends. It was used several times every Friday night between 4:30 and seven.

Joe(At seven, they had to go home and make supper for their husbands)Nation

All I can think of is - somebody had a layover in Winnipeg. If yanno what I mean.

Yep, the mechanics are a little different. lol

No.

This is a problem young people have, they think their situation re sex is unique. Eventually you will learn that is untrue, behavior never changes, only the faces are new.
And thank you for explaining the intricate and complex rules of posting on a forum that the entire world can view and comment on. On a serious note, it your family did a lousy job of preparing you for adulthood, please seek help from the university advisors. You sound like you need to talk with a impartial professional who is well equipped to help you.

Buffdude - did you get an answer to your question?

The answer is NO!! Do not ask your roommate to share his girl. Do not settle for "sloppy seconds" from a girl who is loose with lots of guys.

Go out and find a girl that you can have an intimate relationship with.

PS Ask your roommate not to have sex when there are other people in the house - or turn up the radio.