@Lustig Andrei,
Wait a minute.
I doubt tomkitten means to be irresponsible. But - I didn't understand the original post, so I didn't respond.
Tomkitten lives in, if I remember, senior housing. I am pretty sure her cat means a lot to her, and that she is ok with other people's cats. She made many early posts dealing with her husband's illness, hard to make posts, and re certain question on computer use.
I am not clear on how that doorway situation works.. TomK. Perhaps there is an intermediate foyer type hallway.
Give a long time poster (or any poster) a chance before the slammo starts up at her as some kind of insensitive person.
Cripes.