caprice wrote: With all due respect, at the aage of 18 you don't have a wealth of experience to draw on. In fact you would have very little experience. That could lead you down the wrong path. You won't see danger signs that an older woman would see with a man of that age.
Caprice is right. Unfortunately, I had to learn that the hard way. I had always prided myself in being fairly "smart". HA! I was very dumb. Very stupid...when it came to "people."
I was 19 (almost 20)....and my x was 34. Which is only 14 years difference and when you are older then 19.....14 years is not all that bad really. But I did not see signs I should have seen. Other people did. But I didn't listen. I thought they were just jealous. Besides....he treated me like a princess in so many ways. Or so I thought.
And the fact that he wanted me all to himself.....no friends...no family, etc. should have been one HUGE warning sign to me. I just thought he loved me so much he couldn't stand being away from me. I can almost chuckle at that now. The reality is....he never loved me at all.
You are 18....enjoy your life. Let yourself have fun. As you go along ....you will mature and see things differently.
Like Caprice said.....at your age....you may not see danger signs if they are there.
Everyone in this thread has given you good advice. Sit back and think about it. You have your whole life ahead of you...and plenty of time to fall passionately in love with the right man. These are some of the best days of your life. Enjoy the heck out of em' Don't let anyone take your youth away from you. And I'm sorry...but a relationship at 18, with someone more then twice your age...could very well do that.
~Brooke