@BillRM,
Neither would I target and kill women and children. I suppose in war, women and children are open game, as seen so far in our bleak human history. They weren't ever spared the cruelty, ex: rape of nanking, etc. My position has always been that both the parties involved are not innocent on the matter. Israel is the instigator, however.
Let me be clear, I disagree with your position that Israel is innocent. Both are at fault here, and the solution here is for both these people to coexist, setting aside their differences. Either through a two state solution, which hasn't worked so far, or a one state solution.