@parados,
parados, You're talking about very few people, and even less people who own stocks in Apple. At $500/share, not many middle class families owns those shares, given that the average wealth of the middle class. From Chicago Tribune on the middle class.
Quote:The median household net worth, which is the value of assets minus debt, dropped from $129,582 to $93,150 over the same 10-year period, according to Pew, which analyzed U.S. data along with its own survey of nearly 1,300 adults who consider themselves middle class.
Also, you're talking about a "tax bite" that's going to increase by 5% next year. How do you know that stock values will not increase by that amount - or more?
That you can quote anecdotal stories about yourself on this issue - owning and selling Apple shares - doesn't apply to the majority.
I sell my funds when I need the money - and not because of the tax consequences. I have withdrawn more than 2.3 times what's required under IRS laws for this year. That's been true for most of my retirement years since 1998, and my investment balance today is better than what it was on December 31, 2011, but that's also anecdotal.