@cornelljdav,
cornelljdav wrote:
okay. to you though she was trying to be with me and I missed up and now I have to work on getting her back right?
Well I am assuming that from what you have told me. I could be wrong, she might have never put you in the friend zone. I can only assess your relationship with her by what you tell me. I don't have her input. But from what you have told me and my experience and understanding, you have lost a few chances to improve your relationship or take it to a new level. So in a way to answer you, yes. But only if you think that is what you want. If you really are not romantically interested in her then, I would say move on.