@Linkat,
I'm sorry Linkat, I am dreading that day myself with little Miss.. She's 16 and a half now, but a Pomeranian.
Can I say one thing? ... Had your husband felt well enough, and took your Kitty to the Vet, they would have put him to sleep. Knowing that he? Curled up on your lounge in
his home and "fell asleep", to me made me smile...if that makes sense.