@maxdancona,
I can tell, actually.
I probably use intuition more than most because Setanta's early definition, which I agree with, is a large part of how I communicate.
I'm deaf -- completely deaf, can't hear a thing. Yet somehow I am able to carry on conversations with people.
A billion small things are all coalescing at the speed of sound, at a subconscious level. Conversations I've had with that person before, things happening in the environment, micro-expressions, that person's background, that person's age, gender, ethnic background, accent, interests, fears, and on and on.
If I wait to be rational about it I wouldn't be able to understand a thing.
This was a shift I had to make when I was learning how to lipread. If I tried to understand each word as it was uttered it was hopeless. So I had to both learn to just let it wash over me (without rationalizing it into oblivion) and to reassure people that even though it doesn't make sense if I don't understand the first 25 words they say, if they keep up the flow, I'll find something to hook it on and it will all come into focus.
I am forever intuiting secrets, and a stock rule around here is that I'm not allowed to hold my husband or daughter accountable for what they're
thinking, only for what they actually say. I have a bunch of freaky stories about knowing what is going on with people who aren't anywhere near me at the time.
At any rate, I always have this sort of scanning going, and have learned to (mostly) tell false scans from real scans. False scans are usually fear rather than intuition at work.
That is, I'm always worried about my daughter in a low-level way, and have learned to tell when that worry escalates into a feeling of "something is wrong," as separate from the actual feeling that something is wrong. And yeah, that happens -- I have a feeling something is wrong, and five minutes later get the email that my daughter's sick and needs to be picked up from school.
Anyway, another book I recommend is "Blink." It's padded, but there are basic things in there that are interesting and address all of this.