What constitutes great sex?

how do you measure that

Oh, good!

ehbeth never came back. I was hoping for some good juicy details 'bout that nutella thing.

Er ... ehBeth, I take it that the Nutella is eaten?

Nutella, Nutella, let's hear about the Nutella. I think, in most cases, food and sex don't really mix too well. Legs high up in the air and heads repeatedly banging against a headboard . . . that's where the action's at!

hmmmmm

nutella with fresh berries dotted tastefully hither and yon

very nice

the lover as serving platter

it's always worked for me

:wink:

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, I like that ehBeth! .... hither & non!

Okay, I can see how that would spice things up a bit. Doesn't sound too messy either. Thumbs up from me (among other things).

But I guess it would have to be runny, sloppy food, yes? No solids like pizza or chunky fruit salad. Very messy & would sort of defeat the purpose of the exercise! :wink:

Ha! Pizza!

Nutella is very handy - it can be used as a bit of glue for the fruit, and like body paint, and finger paint, and if it does turn out to be messy in the, errrrr, longer run - there's always the communal shower! :wink:

YUMMY!

Followed by the communal towel!

Great sex? it's about interest, enthusiasm, creativity and lust, and sometimes love. Sometimes, the love alone can make the sex great - sometimes you need all of the other components.

I'm not sure if this conversation is getting me horny or hungry.

oh, and a sense of humour.

I don't think sex can be great unless you're with someone you can share a huge laugh with.

Okay, in general, that sounds great. But even with interest, enthusiasm, creativity and lust, you could still be lousy in bed. I think experience is the key ingredient.

Nutella and fruit can help with both of your options, kickycan!

A practical question here, ehBeth: The laundry. Do you end up with a bunch of er ... gruesome sheets?

so, kickycan, your choices are sex with someone who's really into you, is a bit inexperienced, but interested in trying new things with you - or sex with someone who's been there, done that. I don't know which one loves you more, or if either does. Who to go with?

I'm obviously (?) going to say 'pick the person who wants to try new things with you'. They've got the enthusiasm vote - and trust in you. That's big (to me).






oh, msOlga - are you afraid of a little bit of laundry? you have to wash the sheets anyways, don't you?