@GracieGirl,
There was a thread some time ago, Gracie, started by the owner/one of the owners of A2K that was along the lines of "Do we want people who say nasty/bad/unpopular things to be deleted?"
I can't remember if there was a general consensus that came out of that but A2K isn't school.
A2K is real life and in real life in most western countries, one of the central ideas is that no matter how bad/nasty one's speech is, that person still has the right to say these things.
I think you mean Mame's not so secret admirer. I think that that fella, really active for a bit, just got tired and left.
But I'll take the good with the bad. Be like a bee, willing to fly over a couple thousand weeds to, once in a while, come across a flower.