@reasoning logic,
Quote:Can we be intellectually honest about what my interest are?
Only you, can answer that one...I think we all assume, you are...You are not? What do you think, you, or we, are being dishonest about, With conjunction, to your interests? We must know them, to be dishonest, about them...You don't explain them, sometimes, when asked...So how do you believe, anyone is being dishonest, about them, at all??
Quote: Do you think that I would share with you the things that I have no interest in?
No, I don't, we all know, you have an interest in them...and that you have an interest, in what our interests, in those videos, are...But the problem is, is you are not willing, to want to accept, what our interests, are...Because more than 3 people in this thread alone, have said if you explain, what you think, about the videos, people will discuss them, with you...You unawarly do not even realize, that When someone asks you to explain your interests...And you do not...There is absolutely no way for them to know what your interests even are, and that is why they ask you to explain your opinions about the videos...So no one, really, has any idea, at all, if you would share things, of no interest, or not, they would hope, you would not...But if you do not explain, what it is, you like in the videos, no one has any idea, if it is something, you have interest in, or not...Again, we would all like to hope, that it really is...But if you do not explain, what you think about it, or what is good, or bad, about it...One can only guess....The fact you do not even realize, that this, is even happening...Makes me think, you do not even realize, why many, do not watch your videos...Or why, someone who is your friend, is even asking you, to explain them....And not actually trying to reject your ideas, or not pay attention, to you, or hurt you, in any way whatsoever...But is reaching out, to your thinking...And I will explain, much more below...
Quote:If so why would you believe this?
Read above...
Quote:I have invested way more time than what I have wished, "only because I have hope that you may one day consider what I am sharing with you "not that it is truth but it is my honest opinion about the way I see reality.
And I have no problem, with any of it, at all...All that I am saying, is I would actually like, to know even more, of what the ways, you actually see, reality, even are...And that comes with me wanting to know, or have you explain to me, what you actually think, about those videos, that you post...So that I can know, your views of reality, and discuss them, with you...And tell you how I agree, or not...If I do not know it...I can not discuss it, with you, or even give, an opinion, about the videos...Because I have no Idea, what you actually want me to give you my opinions about...Because you have never actually explained, to me, based upon the videos you post...What, or how, in anyway, do you believe, that whatever is said, in them, is apart, of "your reality".... And it leaves me/us with a guessing game...
Quote:I Hate to admit it, but I only have an interest in those who will give me the time of day. I wish that I could befriend everyone but I am also a realist.
So this is, what I wanted you, to say...So then can you understand why maybe some others, do not give you, the time of day? When they ask you to explain, what you think, about the videos? And you shut them down? They are reaching out, and you are rejecting them...That is why, so many, do not even bother...Because I honestly believe, you do not, even see it, this way...Or understand, that that, is specifically, why many, do not even bother, to watch them...Not because, you are not, worth the time...But you are giving off a vibe, that their opinions, of wanting to hear, what you think, about the videos...Is not even worthy, For them, to even, ask you...When I do not, even think, you mean, to do this...And even realize, that this, is what I think, is happening...I think, if you answered, what you thought, about the videos...And explain, why it is, even apart, of "your reality"...Or why you want others, to give you their opinions, about them...I think at least, a few more...Will answer, many more, videos...Because, some will still, not think, they are worth the time, as it is not relevant, to their own, ideas...But at least a few, would find relevance, to what you are saying, as to how, it is apart, of your reality, then they can be able to decide, for themselves, how they exactly agree, or disagree, that it is actually apart, of theirs, or not...But they will be willing to watch, and talk...Cause they will know exactly what you want them, to explain, what they agree, or disagree with...Cause most people, do not want, to watch, hr+ videos, just to break it all down...To discuss, when you can just say, what you think is important, or what you like, or do not like, and how it is important, or not...etc...Then all they have to do, is find that part, listen to what, the person says, take in, what you have said, and give their own opinions...Other than that...Most people, are not willing to watch, long videos, just to break, it all down, if you do not even tell them what you think, about it, or what parts, you would like, to know their opinions, about....Again, no offense, but I do not even, really think, you understand, why so many, reject, watching them, or how they are jaded, from even doing it...And I am just trying to explain why I think, so many, do it...
Quote:I have shared with you many of my interest and these are the videos that I share with you.
Yes you have...But you do not listen, to what, my interest is, when I tell you, what it is...Sometimes...Because, I am telling you, I would like to know more, about what your interests are, regarding the videos, and I will tell you mine, and be able to discuss them, with you, much more easily, and fluently...If you do not wish, to do it, which you do not, have too, at all...Most people, including myself, may not wish, to watch hr+ movies, just to break it all down...And you have to take that into consideration...Like you said before, if they do give you, the time of day, and ask you, what you think, about it, then they obviously, want to discuss it, with you...But you must oblige to their interests, otherwise, many will be turned off...Cause you are showing that you, do not seem to want, to accept, or give them the time of day, with their interests, when they ask you, what your opinions, of them, are...Again, I do not, even think, you realize, that this, is even happening...Or why so many, do not, even bother...I am telling you, I am almost sure, if you gave your opinions, of why, you liked the video, or what you thought was good, or bad, Or what part of it, fits in, with your own version, of reality...And how it, does not...I am willing to bet, almost everything I have...Many more, will start commenting, about them...And discussing them, with you...
Quote:I know that this is not what you want to hear but neither is some of the things that you share with me, but regardless I pay attention to what you have to share.
We all, pay attention, and we all, disregard some things, we do not like, that we hear, because we are all, bias...Yes, I think, I pay attention, to you, most times, and yes, I think, you pay attention, to me, most times...But you are asking me, how I could, do it more, for you? And I am telling you, that if you tell me, what you think about your videos, I will tell you, what I think, about them...Cause it is not, that I do not want, to listen to you, or pay attention...It is that, I am actually reaching out, and want to do it, even more...But I am asking you, to explain your points, so it can be easier, and be more fluent...And you are not doing so, and rejecting me...Which turns many off...I don't think, you know this, or realize this...But that is why, I think, many do...And I am explaining, how I can see, how they, see it, cause I can feel it, feel, what I think, they feel, though, I think I know you well, and think, you do not, even mean, to actually do that, at all...But that, is how, they take it...But again, I think, you seem to think, or not realize, that people asking you, to explain them, means they are interested...Or want to hear, what you have to say...Not the opposite..And they are not, rejecting you...They are rejecting you, cause they feel rejected, when you ask their opinions, of the videos, and they ask you, yours, or expect you, to tell yours first, since you posted it...And you do not, do it...They probably say to themselves, well ****, if he does not care about what I am asking him, to do, to discuss his videos, and talk with him, about them...He must not care enough, about me...Or honestly, want to give me, the time of day, to explain his views...So why should I, give him mine? Or even, watch the video? I think you give this vibe off, to others, but do not even mean, to do it, at all...And may not even realize, that this is the way, that others, may take it, or perceive it to be...
Quote:I am by no means an intellectual nor should I say a specialist within the many fields of knowledge that I share with you, "I am only a generalist and a "want to be generalist philosopher.
I would say that most of us, are...However, we want to know what you actually think, about them, so that we can, actually explain, our opinions, in our, "generalist philosopher thinking ways"...
I really hope, you understand me, now...Cause I think, I tried, very hard, to make it, very clear...As to why people, feel rejected, and shut down, and do not even bother, to watch them...
Whenever someone, actually reaches out, to you, to know more about, what you think, to discuss it...I think you indirectly, and unawarly, shut them down, or give them that feeling, by them asking you, so that you both can discuss, and you not, doing it, and making them think, to their-selves...****, he does not, even care, to explain to me, what I want, to know, So why should I, break the video down, Because he wants, me to?
Though I am almost certain you do not mean for them to take it this way...And they may not even care to talk to you...To make sure that this is even the case...They just say **** it, and move on...