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Gay Marriage would Upend the Traditional Marriage

 
 
Setanta
 
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Reply Sat 2 Jul, 2011 12:55 pm
@Thomas,
Thomas wrote:
All I was saying is that if this is the rationale, it doesn't apply to incestuous same-sex couples.


No, in fact, you appended no if to the statement. What you said was:

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The basis for the regulation, rather, is their increased risk of producing sick offspring that the public then has to support. That risk is zero for same-sex couples, low for regular heterosexual couples, and higher for heterosexual incestual couples.


So that was an unqualified statement of the state's interest. There is a further problem with this, too, in that it implies a means test. Leaving aside that you have no good reasont to assume that an incestuous couple could not support their offspring who were carriers of an hereditary disease, such logic could as easily be used to justify the state prohibiting the reproduction of any couple they deemed financially unable to support their offspring, and thereby throwing them onto public support.
Thomas
 
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Reply Sat 2 Jul, 2011 01:09 pm
@Setanta,
Setanta wrote:
No, in fact, you appended no if to the statement. What you said was:

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The basis for the regulation, rather, is their increased risk of producing sick offspring that the public then has to support.

That's the state's basis for the regulation. I didn't say the basis is strong enough. I don't think it is.
Setanta
 
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Reply Sat 2 Jul, 2011 01:14 pm
@Thomas,
I see . . . how very educational. What publications did you consult that informed you that "the state" has that basis for their regulation? Which state? All of them? Some of them? New Jersey only?
joefromchicago
 
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Reply Sat 2 Jul, 2011 02:43 pm
@Thomas,
Thomas wrote:

joefromchicago wrote:
You can condition one's right to procreate on one's ability to procreate? That makes no sense whatsoever.

If the rationale for denying the right depends on that ability, how does it not make sense?

Well, for example, you might say "you have the right to free speech, unless you happen to be a really bad speaker, in which case you don't." That's what you're suggesting, and that's how it doesn't make sense. We don't condition one's civil rights on one's ability to exploit those rights.

Thomas wrote:
That's not what I'm saying:

No, that's exactly what you're saying.

Thomas wrote:
The basis for the regulation isn't the ability to produce healthy offspring. Incestuous couples have this ability; their offspring is usually healthy. The basis for the regulation, rather, is their increased risk of producing sick offspring that the public then has to support. That risk is zero for same-sex couples, low for regular heterosexual couples, and higher for heterosexual incestual couples.

Saying "incestuous couples have a greater chance of producing defective children" or saying "incestuous couples have a lower chance of producing healthy children" is to say the same thing, just in different ways. It's two sides of the same coin. What you're saying, then, is that you would condition some people's right to marry on their ability to produce healthy children, and that's the same argument used by gay marriage opponents. Certainly, if the state can say to incestuous heterosexual couples "you can't marry because you have an unacceptably high risk of producing defective children," why can't the state say to homosexual couples "you can't marry because you have an unacceptably high risk of not producing any children"?
Thomas
 
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Reply Sat 2 Jul, 2011 02:45 pm
@Setanta,
Since you have no interest in discussing the matter, I don't see why I should go into this.
joefromchicago
 
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Reply Sat 2 Jul, 2011 02:46 pm
@Thomas,
Thomas wrote:
As it happens, this affair that was perfectly legal, and so is their marriage. If Sozobe is correct in hypothesizing that power imbalances are the reason for prohibiting incest, why don't those prohibitions protect adopted chidren?

They do apply to adopted children. Soon-Yi Previn wasn't adopted by Woody Allen, so their affair and subsequent marriage wasn't incestuous. In the eyes of the law, they weren't related at all.
Thomas
 
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Reply Sat 2 Jul, 2011 03:04 pm
@joefromchicago,
joefromchicago wrote:
Well, for example, you might say "you have the right to free speech, unless you happen to be a really bad speaker, in which case you don't."

That's not the analogy. The analogy is "you have the right to free speech, unless that speech happens to cause really bad consequences". The canonical example in the case of speech is to shout "fire" in a crowded theater. The state can forbid that because it might cause a panic. Here the example is procreating with your close relatives, increasing the risk of offspring with hereditary diseases. Once again, I'm not saying that's a terribly strong rationale. All I'm saying is that even if this is the rationale, it doesn't apply to same-sex incest.

joefromchicago wrote:
Saying "incestuous couples have a greater chance of producing defective children" or saying "incestuous couples have a lower chance of producing healthy children" is to say the same thing, just in different ways.

No it's not. The initial post in this thread provides a counter-example. Same-sex incestuous couples have a lower chance of producing defective children, but not a greater chance of producing defective ones. Your two statements are not logically equivalent.
Thomas
 
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Reply Sat 2 Jul, 2011 03:05 pm
@joefromchicago,
joefromchicago wrote:
They do apply to adopted children. Soon-Yi Previn wasn't adopted by Woody Allen, so their affair and subsequent marriage wasn't incestuous. In the eyes of the law, they weren't related at all.

So if Allen had had adopted Previn, the two could be jailed for having sex? Fair enough. I stand corrected, then.
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joefromchicago
 
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Reply Sun 3 Jul, 2011 11:03 am
@Thomas,
Thomas wrote:
That's not the analogy. The analogy is "you have the right to free speech, unless that speech happens to cause really bad consequences".

That may be your analogy now, but that's only because you keep shifting your position. You said: "If the rationale for denying the right depends on that ability, how does it not make sense?" You didn't say anything about consequences, you said that the right can be conditioned on the ability. I'm trying to keep up with your argument, I suggest you do the same.

Thomas wrote:
The canonical example in the case of speech is to shout "fire" in a crowded theater. The state can forbid that because it might cause a panic. Here the example is procreating with your close relatives, increasing the risk of offspring with hereditary diseases. Once again, I'm not saying that's a terribly strong rationale. All I'm saying is that even if this is the rationale, it doesn't apply to same-sex incest.

That's a content restriction in the context of the right of free speech. It has very little to do with a category restriction in the context of the right to marry. We don't deny people the right of free speech because they're in a class of people who have historically misused that right.

Thomas wrote:
joefromchicago wrote:
Saying "incestuous couples have a greater chance of producing defective children" or saying "incestuous couples have a lower chance of producing healthy children" is to say the same thing, just in different ways.

No it's not. The initial post in this thread provides a counter-example. Same-sex incestuous couples have a lower chance of producing defective children, but not a greater chance of producing defective ones. Your two statements are not logically equivalent.

That's such a comical misstatement of what I said that I can only conclude you either didn't read what I wrote or you didn't read what you wrote. Of course saying that same-sex incestuous couples have both a higher and a lower risk of producing defective children would not be logically equivalent. That's why I didn't say that. I wrote that saying incestuous couples have a higher chance of producing defective children or a lower chance of producing healthy (i.e. non-defective) children is to say the same thing. And I'm right.

By the way, you forgot to address this question:

joefromchicago wrote:
Certainly, if the state can say to incestuous heterosexual couples "you can't marry because you have an unacceptably high risk of producing defective children," why can't the state say to homosexual couples "you can't marry because you have an unacceptably high risk of not producing any children"?
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Setanta
 
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Reply Sun 3 Jul, 2011 11:06 am
@Thomas,
Yeah, Weasel, why expose yourself to a rehearsal of the stupidity of your position. I can see why you'd want to go that route.
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MontereyJack
 
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Reply Sun 3 Jul, 2011 11:11 am
joefromchicago says:
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Certainly, if the state can say to incestuous heterosexual couples "you can't marry because you have an unacceptably high risk of producing defective children," why can't the state say to homosexual couples "you can't marry because you have an unacceptably high risk of not producing any children"?


Equal treatment under the law. It doesn't say that to hterosexual couples where the woman is past menopause, or where the man has had a vasectomy or the woman a tubal ligation, or the man's sperm count is essentially zero. It doesn't say that to a heterosexual couple who have publicly and repeatedly stated they have no intention of having children. It doesn't annul a marriage when the coupl=e produces no children. Procreation is only one facet of marriage and is by no means universal.
joefromchicago
 
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Reply Sun 3 Jul, 2011 11:17 am
@MontereyJack,
Don't tell me, tell Thomas. He's the one who thinks the state can make marriage rights dependent on a couple's ability to produce healthy children.
MontereyJack
 
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Reply Sun 3 Jul, 2011 11:27 am
Okay. Thomas, are you reading. I'll repeat, I don't think the increased risk of birth defects is why we have incest laws.Just about every culture we know of, no matter how "primitive" or ancient they were or are has rules of exogamy, and pretty much all of them to my knowledge are exogamous outside the immediate family and to differing degrees with close kin. Someon here called it the "ick" factor, it's at least culturally ingrained,and it's my opinion that was the main impetus for the laws, and why they apply to same-sex incest as well as opposite sex. Come down to that, I think, though I haven't researched this, that most mammals also mate outside the immediate family too, so there is quite possibly an innate evolutionary component to it too.
Thomas
 
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Reply Sun 3 Jul, 2011 11:39 am
@MontereyJack,
I agree the "ick" factor is the major driver behind the anti-incest prohibitions I mentioned. Our closest relatives, the chimpanzees, the bonobos, and the gorillas have it, too. And in our own species, the taboo is so widespread that we have to go back 2000 years to find the latest statistics on the social consequences of legalizing incest. (It's ancient Roman census data on their occupied Egyptian territories). My source for all this is A. P. Wolf (ed): Inbreeding, Incest, and the Incest taboo: the state of knowledge at the turn of the century. Stanford University Press (2004).

My interpretation is that incest aversion is adaptive in the stone-age environment our species evolved in. Back then, our ancestors lived in small groups, the pool of potential sex partners was small, and incest aversion would have increased their offspring's chances of survival by reducing the probability that recessive genes for certain illnesses were expressed. Needless to say, very few humans live in such an environment today. There is no rational basis backing up that "ick" factor anymore.
Thomas
 
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Reply Sun 3 Jul, 2011 11:41 am
Setanta and Joe: At least one of us three is utterly incapable of getting where the other is coming from. Regardless of who it is, I decided it's time for me to take another round of political detox. See you guys in the cooking threads or whatever.
cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Sun 3 Jul, 2011 11:56 am
@Thomas,
I believe Egyptians practiced incest - especially amongst the pharaohs (royals).
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MontereyJack
 
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Reply Sun 3 Jul, 2011 12:00 pm
Thomas, I think it's more a case of not agreeing with rather than not getting. And it goes pretty far down the mammalian chain, well past us great apes.
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parados
 
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Reply Sun 3 Jul, 2011 01:20 pm
@joefromchicago,
One could make the argument that some states do just that.
http://www.cousincouples.com/?page=states

From the link to the Ill law
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(4) a marriage between cousins of the first degree; however, a marriage between first cousins is not prohibited if: (i) both parties are 50 years of age or older; or (ii) either party, at the time of application for a marriage license, presents for filing with the county clerk of the county in which the marriage is to be solemnized, a certificate signed by a licensed physician stating that the party to the proposed marriage is permanently and irreversibly sterile;


But it certainly destroys any argument that marriage is for conception when states have laws like that.
joefromchicago
 
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Reply Sun 3 Jul, 2011 03:19 pm
@parados,
Illinois doesn't have gay marriage -- yet. I think it would be very difficult to justify that kind of law after the passage of gay marriage.
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MontereyJack
 
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Reply Sun 3 Jul, 2011 04:13 pm
On a completely different note, Thomas, I sent you two PMs about the Lowell Folk Festival, but I suspect only one at most got to you. If you didn't get both, let me know. And if anyone else is interested, having absolutely nothing to do with this topic, there is a great free international folk festival in Lowell, MA, the last weeken of July, Fri-Sun.
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