@JeffreyEqualityNewma,
I hope you realize that lumping everybody into the same category is the sort of thing that you probably don't like in other folks. Unless I am reading your post incorrectly, well, that's what I'm seeing.
I'm a heterosexual woman and good lord I would never think of going to a gay bar for a bachelorette party. It's not even about flaunting marriage; it's more a matter of taste (then again, I didn't want a stripper and I don't think I have any friends who had strippers for theirs, either).
I am thinking these are just a buncha idiots - please don't think they act like the majority.