What does it mean when he acts like this?

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I am friends on facebook with a work colleague, but we have never really had a conversation.
I have felt that I have been getting mixed signals from him in work, as I’ve noticed him staring at me, winking and he gave me a compliment. When I decided to ask him what my hunch was he then backed off. But I find that if I ignore him back, I notice him looking at me.

Last Monday he just dissed me and could not even look at me and his mannerisum seemed quite kurt towards me compared to recently. I decided to send a message Monday night via facebook, but I haven’t heard anything back. All I put was “Hi How are you?”.

ALSO on facebook, there is no info or sign if he single or not or what is set up is. And over the past several years there has been no sexual/flirtatious surverys or comments being posted on his wall, BUT recently there has been some sexual/Flirtatious surveys that has been posted on his wall by 3 separate women.

He has a slight hint that I maybe interested. I am not sure if he his interested? All this is making me feel confused.

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@confusedsole,

You're the second person this morning to ask duplicate questions a day apart. Here is your first try: http://able2know.org/topic/173283-1#post-4637587

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Confused - step back.
You are not even aware if he is even "available" - he could be married. Surely you can find that out.

Another way is to actually talk with him. You might work into the conversation something like ". . . and it's a restaurant you might want to bring your signifcant other to." He will let you know if he is "taken."

BTW - mature people speak to other people. Not FB.

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Why would you waste time on someone who plays immature games like this? If he's like this BEFORE a relationship, I shudder to think what he'd be like IN one.

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We don't know how old these two are.

I really get concerned about cyber relationships and the reliance the youth put on this way of interacting with others.

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@PUNKEY,

Why does it concern you?

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@confusedsole,

Isn't this the same exact situation? Why create a new nickname and question? Even the wording is the same?

http://able2know.org/topic/173284-1

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@confusedsole,

As a dude, I know he's not interested. What you were seeing as flirts and winks, was likely him being friendly. He may have been curious at one time, but not anymore. Plus, reading his posts on FB going back several years is very bad behavior. You're probably putting out similar vibes in real life.

If you want him (and remember there's no sign he'll reciprocate) just keep an office friendly relationship. Say 'Hello' when needed, when he tries to strike up a conversation, end it politely (not rushed) and say as little as possible. If you do this, he may think you're over him and it'll either make him want you or you'll have a normal office relationship from there on out.

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