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LADIES: WHATAYATHINK ?

 
 
Reply Thu 2 Jun, 2011 04:41 pm
I received some spam (set forth below).

I don 't tend to agree with it, preferring to be direct n simple,
but because of my interest in how people think,
I thought that I 'd ask the ladies how thay re-act
to this guy 's analysis.

WHATAYATHINK ??




NOTE: If you're ready to finally say goodbye to the "inner game challenges"
like insecurity, fear, and anxiety that are holding you back from
TRUE success with women...here is your answer:

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HOW TO LOSE A GIRL - A DANGEROUS IDEA...

Now THIS sounds like an interesting topic, doesn't it?

Why would you want to know how to LOSE a girl?

Well, I'm going to propose a DANGEROUS IDEA.

I'm going to suggest that you are probably already an EXPERT
in LOSING a girl.

You might even be a "natural" at it.

Most guys are.

The PROBLEM is that most guys don't UNDERSTAND why they're
so good at LOSING women.

In other words, they walk through the world screwing up one
situation after another, and never realize JUST HOW GOOD they
are at being BAD with women.

They don't realize that just by changing a few key things they could
change their level of success DRAMATICALLY.

One great way to increase your success in life is to start REALIZING
what you're doing. Once you actually understand what you're doing
and the results you're triggering, you can CHANGE.

So open your mind. Listen up.

TYPICAL THINGS MEN DO

As you've probably heard me say about a million times, MEN ARE
PREDICTABLE.

In fact, we're PAINFULLY predictable.

We all do basically the same things when we get into common
situations with women...and we don't even realize it.

I call this the "Originality Paradox."

In our desire to be "original" and "unique," we guys tend to do the
SAME THINGS! Said differently, while you're doing something that
seems thoughtful and original, the attractive woman on the other
end is thinking, "He's just like all the other guys."

Ouch.

So why is being predictable so bad?

Look at this formula:

Predictable = BORING.

Boring = NO EMOTIONS.

No Emotions = NO ATTRACTION.

No Attraction = NO GETTIN' SHIZZY WITH THA NIZZY!

One of the VERY BEST ways to lose a girl is to be PREDICTABLE.

Another huge mistake men make is GIVING AWAY OUR POWER to women.

I'm not going to go into it, but the reality is that women are NOT
attracted to WEAK men. And I'm not talking about muscles here.

If you act like a Wuss, you are shooting yourself in the foot.
Before we go on, I want to mention something VERY important.
If you have a nasty case of "Wuss-itis" and you can't seem to get rid
of it, then go read THIS before you read the rest of this newsletter:

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Here are a few examples of how we guys act PREDICTABLE, give
away our power, and make about 147 other huge mistakes with
women we've just met:

1) Call Her All The Time

If you like someone, it's logical that you're going to want to let them
know, right?

Well, only if you like the idea of coming across like a total Jack-Wuss.
I just made that up, by the way. Combination of Jackass and Wuss.
Not sure if I like it, but I'm going to go with it.

Where was I?

Yeah, calling her all the time.

Calling all the time is usually triggered by INSECURITY and
NEEDINESS. It sounds like a good idea, but it almost NEVER is.

This is a great way to lose a girl before you even have her.
We might even call this one "Have Prevention."

2) Offer To Take Her Somewhere "Nice"

What do most guys do when they meet a girl that they "really" like?

Well, they call her up, and they get into a boring conversation about
schools and families and jobs and 100 other painfully boring
things... and when they finally realize that they've been on the
phone for an hour, they realize that they'd better do SOMETHING
soon...because she's starting to talk about having to go wash her dog....

So what do they do?

They think to themselves, "Self, you'd better get up some nerve and
ask her out. Hey! Self! I have a GREAT idea. Ask her to go out with
you to a REALLY NICE place. She'll be far more likely to want to do
that, and besides, then she'll know that you REALLY like her...."

What does this REALLY communicate?

Right, right.

That you have the confidence to just ask her to spend time with you
for NO REASON other than the fact that you want to...and that you
must not be WORTH spending time with - without some kind
of "meal incentive."

Meal Incentive...lol...I crack myself up.

Well, this is one more example of something that "sounds good" in
the moment, but is BAD BAD BAD for business.

3) Do "Thoughtful" Things From The Beginning

What's better than a nice, thoughtful guy showing up at the door
with flowers and candy for the first date?

Well, to quote an old Saturday Night Live episode, "Throwing an
entire box of thumb tacks on the floor, and rolling around in them naked."

We men do this kind of thing all the time...because it sure sounds
good in the moment.


If you come on too strong, you appear just like every other
predictable Wussboy who has ever tried to make himself look better
by giving gifts and food and favors in exchange for attention and approval.

4) Tell Her How You "Feel" About Her Early On

This might be one of my favorites.

I'm starting to think that we guys must come stock with a
mechanism that actually compels us to open our BIG FAT MOUTHS
and screw things up with only the BEST women.

I'll call this the "Feeling Confessor" mechanism. It is triggered by
strong feelings of attraction and emotion toward an unusually attractive woman.

I've talked to A LOT of attractive women in my life and they
all have one similar experience to share...

For some UNKNOWN reason, men just seem to LOVE telling
SUPER HOT women how they FEEL within the first couple of dates.

As you might realize, I get a lot of email from guys...

Some of the common email I get goes a little something like this:

"David, I met this unbelievably hot girl...she's smart, interesting,
successful...everything seemed to be going well...so I decided to
tell her how I felt...and for some reason she said that she needs
some "space" and some "time to be alone"...I don't get it...."

Again, when you do this you're making all kinds of huge
mistakes...and basically doing everything you can do to LOSE her.

5) Keep Telling Her How You Feel When She Needs Space

As if the last example wasn't painful enough, most guys usually like
to use this final "nail in the coffin" technique as well...

Here's the situation:

You've met a girl you really like. Maybe you've gone out with her
a few times. Doesn't matter.

You do all the things you can think of to SCREW IT UP, and you finally succeed.

You prove to her that you just don't get it, and you don't know how
to handle a woman like her.

So she says, "I need some space" or "I need some time to myself."

What do most guys do?

Of course. They KEEP telling her how they feel.

They do it in 100 annoying ways.

The thought that most guys have is, "If she only understood how
I REALLY FELT ABOUT HER, then she would LOVE ME."

It's painful just typing the words.

So there you have it.

Part of the magic formula for losing a girl fast. Interesting, isn't it?

There's a much DEEPER message here.

The message is this:

If you don't understand the process of how to make women feel
ATTRACTION for you, including the things to AVOID doing, then
you're not going to have success.

Not knowing the rules of a game makes it very difficult (or impossible) to win.

Unfortunately, we guys have a HUGE disadvantage when it comes to
women and dating...

We have emotional responses to situations that take over
our "thinking," and makes us do all the wrong things.

We usually sabotage OURSELVES.

Well, the good news is that it does NOT have to be this way.
There is a BETTER way.

If you found this particular discussion interesting, then you're
probably ready to learn the DEEPER secrets of how to be more
successful with women and dating.

If you're ready to STOP losing women faster than you can meet
them, then it's probably time for you to step up and get yourself
an education about how to attract women and KEEP them attracted.

The best education in the world is my Advanced Dating Techniques program.
It's over 12 full hours of me teaching all of my very best concepts.

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running into rejection. It is literally JAM PACKED with HUNDREDS
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all of your obstacles and getting to the point in your life where you
have the kind of success that you've always wanted with women.

Go check out the great free samples here:

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If you're reading this right now and you haven't yet downloaded your
copy of my online eBook "Double Your Dating," I have something to tell you...

My eBook is the foundation for everything that I teach in these
newsletters, and it's the foundation for my Advanced Dating
Techniques Program.

Guys are surprised when they listen to the Advanced Program
because I don't just rehash "Double Your Dating" and I talk about
a few new tricks.

The Advanced Program is almost ALL new stuff!

You need to read "Double Your Dating" TOO because it contains a lot
of valuable material that sets the stage for everything else.
It's here, go download it now:

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I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. You can watch video clips of all my other programs online anytime, 24/7, right here:

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hamilton
 
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Reply Thu 2 Jun, 2011 06:23 pm
wow! your quite the expert!
Ionus
 
  1  
Reply Thu 2 Jun, 2011 06:42 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
That is a rather lengthy criticism of the club and cave method .
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Irishk
 
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Reply Thu 2 Jun, 2011 09:49 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
Ignore everything except #5.
OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Fri 3 Jun, 2011 01:06 am
@hamilton,
hamilton wrote:
wow! your quite the expert!
Mr. Hamilton,
let 's not get confused here. This is only some spam
that arrived in my email inbox, that I don 't rate much above garbage.

Its not MY fault that the author shares my first name.

I was just curious of what the ladies woud think of it.





David
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OmSigDAVID
 
  1  
Reply Fri 3 Jun, 2011 01:08 am
@Irishk,
Thanx, K.

I believe that I 'll dump the whole thing.





David
jespah
 
  4  
Reply Fri 3 Jun, 2011 05:50 am
@OmSigDAVID,
I think you're reposting spam and giving a fly by night company more credence and SEO than it deserves.
spendius
 
  0  
Reply Fri 3 Jun, 2011 06:40 am
@jespah,
Henry Miller said something about finding out what ladies think having a profound effect on his metabolic reflexes.
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OmSigDAVID
 
  0  
Reply Fri 3 Jun, 2011 09:28 am
@jespah,
jespah wrote:
I think you're reposting spam
and giving a fly by night company more credence and SEO than it deserves.
I DID re-post spam.

I don 't believe what he wrote,
but I was curious to get some female perspective.
I have always been deeply interested in how people think.

What does SEO mean ?





David
Ragman
 
  1  
Reply Fri 3 Jun, 2011 09:31 am
@OmSigDAVID,
Search engine optimization (SEO), which is an art-science designed to maximize the reach of an Internet advertiser to make sure their particular ads move to the top of the search hierarchy and make search engines such as google get them tanked higher.
spendius
 
  0  
Reply Fri 3 Jun, 2011 10:20 am
@Ragman,
Which is not quite getting our technical wizardy to fly up its own arse but it is getting there.
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OmSigDAVID
 
  0  
Reply Fri 3 Jun, 2011 10:29 am
@Ragman,
Ragman wrote:
Search engine optimization (SEO), which is an art-science designed to maximize the reach of an Internet advertiser to make sure their particular ads move to the top of the search hierarchy and make search engines such as google get them tanked higher.
I see. Thank u.
I did not mean to be of assistance to the spammer.
I don 't think its likely that denizens of this forum
will click on his links. I have not done so.





David
Irishk
 
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Reply Fri 3 Jun, 2011 01:54 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
OmSigDAVID wrote:

Thanx, K.

I believe that I 'll dump the whole thing.

Good idea. Actually, I posted the opposite of what I intended. I meant to say pay attention to all but #5, but my head was elsewhere and I was still shaking it over two bizarre stories I'd just read. First, there was an article about some guy who buried himself in a coffin just for the experience of lasting overnight (with the help of a friend). He used his cell to say he was ok, but was dead by morning. I think that was in Russia.

The second was a poor man, I believe from China, who wanted an iPad 2 so badly, he sold his kidney to get the money to pay for it.

All that made your weird advice-guy seem tame Smile
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jespah
 
  2  
Reply Fri 3 Jun, 2011 03:18 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
OmSigDAVID wrote:

Ragman wrote:
Search engine optimization (SEO), which is an art-science designed to maximize the reach of an Internet advertiser to make sure their particular ads move to the top of the search hierarchy and make search engines such as google get them tanked higher.
I see. Thank u.
I did not mean to be of assistance to the spammer.
I don 't think its likely that denizens of this forum
will click on his links. I have not done so.





David


I know you didn't mean to, and I doubt our readers will click, either, but by reposting you've given the spammer, potentially, a higher Google ranking -- which means people making Google searches (not necessarily A2Kers), will see his wares more readily. So, yeah, even though it's inadvertent, these kinds of repostings (please don't think I'm specifically picking on you; I'm trying to educate all) give him nice, free advertising.
spendius
 
  0  
Reply Fri 3 Jun, 2011 03:30 pm
@jespah,
I'm in favour of anything free.
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OmSigDAVID
 
  0  
Reply Fri 3 Jun, 2011 10:46 pm
@jespah,
OmSigDAVID wrote:

Ragman wrote:
Search engine optimization (SEO), which is an art-science designed to maximize the reach of an Internet advertiser to make sure their particular ads move to the top of the search hierarchy and make search engines such as google get them tanked higher.
I see. Thank u.
I did not mean to be of assistance to the spammer.
I don 't think its likely that denizens of this forum
will click on his links. I have not done so.





David
jespah wrote:
I know you didn't mean to, and I doubt our readers will click, either, but by reposting you've given the spammer, potentially, a higher Google ranking -- which means people making Google searches (not necessarily A2Kers), will see his wares more readily. So, yeah, even though it's inadvertent, these kinds of repostings (please don't think I'm specifically picking on you; I'm trying to educate all) give him nice, free advertising.
Granted, but u know, it is at least theoretically possible that
significant and interesting points can be raised in spam -- something worth discussing.





David
jespah
 
  3  
Reply Sat 4 Jun, 2011 05:52 am
@OmSigDAVID,
Sure, but they can be done without providing links.

The spammer doesn't care about the discussion, only the links, and their potential to increase his/her profit.
spendius
 
  0  
Reply Sat 4 Jun, 2011 06:04 am
@jespah,
I'm in favour of increasing profit.
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harddisk01
 
  0  
Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2011 03:15 am
@OmSigDAVID,
I was very bored today but am really ok now when i enter here

thanks
Author
roger
 
  1  
Reply Wed 10 Aug, 2011 04:17 am
@harddisk01,
Glad to hear it.
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