I am glad that there will be sweet people around you when you scatter Bob's
ashes. Up there in Taos on that bridge is a perfect place for Bob - so serene and it's kind of a special place too! You don't see the beauty of it right away, only when spending some time there and soaking it in - a bit like Bob himself.
I might not be able to go there this September, but someday I will and knowing that Bob is there in ashes and spirit, will make it all the more special.
My thoughts will be with you and Bob, Diane! We talked quite often on the phone, while you were still asleep in the morning. Our topic mostly revolved around social services and children and I was happy that we did
see eye to eye on many issues pertaining to that subject. His input gave