@Diane,
No, I'm not going to post the tough stories. As if I somehow remembered them as if I was there. I was just a listener all those times. At the least, I will talk with you first.
But I am not the only one he talked with.
I don't have funny stories from him stored in my memory, only hard ones, and those not very particulate since my brain is not the best recorder. But you and I can talk about this, figuring out what we remember, and then I'll be ok to post.
Not to obfuscate, not the way of either of us, but to help remember.