In my eyes, my husband totally do not understand me, which make me often feel he does not respect me at all. it is a terrible feeling foe me.
how about you?
In my eyes, my husband totally does not understand me, which makes me often feel
he does not respect me at all. It is a terrible feeling for me. How about you?
I feel OK, thank u.
David
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roger
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Thu 21 Apr, 2011 02:05 am
@ohmylady,
I'm sure he doesn't understand you. You are a woman.
Is it possible he does have respect for you, and doesn't show it the way you think he should? This might be something you could talk over with him.
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BillRM
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Thu 21 Apr, 2011 04:48 am
@ohmylady,
I tell my wife that if I do or do not do something that annoy her or hurt her feelings to let me know in a clear and plain manner.
Most me are emotional blind compare to most women and this sadly can results in the first clue something in wrong in the relationship for a man is being serve divorce papers.
There are many things about me that my husband doesn't understand (and vice versa), but he loves me. In his own way, of course, which is not always the same way as mine. But that's okay.
FYI, we've been married for 27 years so far.
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PUNKEY
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Thu 21 Apr, 2011 04:31 pm
Husbands are not mind readers, so unless you have verbalized what you want, then don't expect him to "understand.'
My SIL drives me crazy when she tries to "read" her husband's thoughts and actions. She makes assumptions based on ridiculous things such as a "look" or even a "grunt." She gets irritated with him because he does not meet her "needs" but I know she does not express them well to him.
Husbands are not mind readers, so unless you have verbalized what you want, then don't expect him to "understand.'
My SIL drives me crazy when she tries to "read" her husband's thoughts and actions. She makes assumptions based on ridiculous things such as a "look" or even a "grunt." She gets irritated with him because he does not meet her "needs" but I know she does not express them well to him.
It's all about communication.
My ex-law partner lamented
that his long-time girlfriend complained of him that:
"if u really LOVED ME, then u 'd KNOW what I wanted and needed."
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