@engineer,
Ack. Ok, I couldn't read through all of that without getting frustrated. Anybody mind a new discussion? The angles/ideas I find most interesting:
1) The shift away from manual labor, where men always had a natural advantage.
2) Schooling methods being more geared toward typically feminine learning styles (sit still, fill in the blanks, listen and follow instructions, etc...) . Where's boomerang?
3) The psychological effects of the current recession on men who may not be in a position to adapt. This one bothers me.
4) Could our perpetual warring be having an effect on the education levels of our young men?