@FreeDuck,
For what it's worth, and although i know people get bored with history, and think it is irrelevant--there are examples from history, and the ethnological inferences of pre-history, which are precedents for this.
In ancient Keltic societies, any woman whose property exceeded that of her mate was considered the head of the household--and was obliged to provide military service, either her own or a hired substitute. Both the Romans and the Greeks complained about Keltic women who would follow their men into battle, and then leap on the backs of their soldiers as soon as the Kelts were able to break their lines. Keltic societies were matrilinear, meaning descent was traced through the adult women--which makes sense, in that you can't be certain who fathered her children, and with a healthy young woman who knows how to use a sword, it might not be a good idea to ask. Men would favor not their sons (since they were often uncertain about that), but rather their sister-sons, their nephews, who they knew possessed their "blood."
The great Irish mythic hero, Cuchulainn, learned the use of weapons and the arts of war from two Scots women. (Scotland is called Scotland from the Irish colonies there at the time of the Roman invasion.)
It wasn't just the Kelts, either. The Sarmation, an Indo-Iranian people who occupied what is now the Ukraine, probably gave rise to the Greek legend of the Amazons. Long poo-pooed by historians who hewed to the Judeo-Christian misogynistic line of thinking, reinforced by Roman attitudes, modern archaeology has vindicated the Greeks. Many rich burials of female warriors have been found in Sarmatian sites, and the richest and most elaborate is that of a "warrior queen."
Among the Huron-Iroquois linguistic and cultural group, women occupied an important part in the polity. The women's council, of elders, could overrule the men on issues of protracted warfare, and had the sole right to decide on moving the village, sept or tribe. Among the Natchez, of the south of what is now the United States, the women chose the successors of priests or rulers, and their rather sensible code required all social classes to marry commoners (called "Stinkards" by the early European settlers). The offspring of a male of any social class and a female commoner reverted to the next lower class, but the offspring of a female and a commoner retained the class standing of the mother. At the highest levels of society, the male commoner became virtually the body servant of the woman who married him, and she could have him executed for infidelity--although she could, herself, have as many lovers as she chose.
We only assume that men are and always have been dominant because our ancestral cultures have been polluted by, or even obliterated by the Roman0-Judeo-Christian culture which has dominated European society for a thousand years.
It was not always so.