@CalamityJane,
CalamityJane wrote:
Fido wrote:
dyslexia wrote:
Some years ago, when Fyrefox (THE LIBERTARIAN) was debating with Georgeob, George commented that teaching a woman to give good head was as impossible as teaching the Israelis how to get along with the Palestinians. Some get it, some don't.
There is no such thing as bad head... Some people have defective heads....
Hahaha...
I guess we have a 14 year old among us here ;-)
57 going on 14, maybe... In any event, it is not the act, but the overtones that makes oral sex or kink enjoyable... We often endure no end of humilation to have our relationships, including employment for income to support the relationship... Often there is animosity or gruges of some sort, resentment, or anger... With sex, all accounts should be marked paid, and people should begin again, but very often sex has overtones of all the pain people go through for the relationship that makes sex possible... There is the sweet and casual making of love and then there is nearly violent efffing... There is humiliation and compliance and submission at times... And there is trust, which there must be no end to if you would put your unit in a mouth with all those sharp teeth...What won't we do??? If you love, where will you stop at expressing your adoration??? So, it is not an issue of quality... The very fact that people give pleasure without directly receiving pleasure, that they do something that until recently was considered criminal, obscene, or outrageaus is enough... And should be enough... I always thought it was great... But more because my generation was led to believe that that part of our bodies are dirty while our mouths are clean, when I am sure it is nearly always the opposite...