Is it actually possible to have good sex with a man with a small penis?

Queenie says
"Lolz, I love it when people directly contradict their signatures.
Alas me and the boy failed, but that was more to do with me moving 7000 miles away; we spent the last month just being friends. "

I hear ya girlfriend, me,,,I love it when people directly contradict all sense of personal space and blabber on about penises they have known. My Dad was a salty sort, and I heard him say (when he thought the kids couldn't hear)" Oh yeah, that one, if she had as many sticking out of her as she has had stuck in her she would look like a porcupine." Almost forgot it until I fell over your edifying discussion regarding penis, shape, girth or whatever you think is interesting conversation. My brother used to complain about a woman who worked in his office who had a problem sharing way too much information. He claims she once called in sick and then to say she would have to see her doctor (if she stopped there, no problem but she continued) because she had a rash on her vulva.

But I am sorry to hear about your last boy, I'm sure you won't have much trouble finding someone else to examine. Be sure to share all the details, because in spite of the fact I have three grown sons, I don't have a clue about sex and it's always wonderful to hear from someone who has just discovered it and thinks they are the only person on God's green earth who knows anything at all. Better yet, see what you can find out over the next five years and share with all the rest of us asexuals in on the process which is sooooooo mysterious. Is it true that sex was discovered just this past September, Dr. Ruth?

Glitterbag. What is wrong with you? PQ hasn't done anything wrong... Several people here share pretty liberally - and while it may not be your cup of tea, it's much easier to just NOT READ it than attack her personally. It's so weird... sounds like you're actually jealous based on your comments. Where did she sound like she "just discovered it" or "thinks [she is] the only person on God's green earth who knows anything at all"? I don't think the small penis man in question would react any worse than you did. Check yourself, woman!

OK folks, if you're comfortable sharing intimate information like some people talk about breeding horses, by all means, enjoy yourself. You are right, I did not have to read this thread. I am not offering an excuse, but it appears that we are assaulted everywhere we go with people obsessing over their own narcissism. So since I didn't have anything nice to say, I shouldn't have said anything.

However, in an effort to join in with all the celebrating and sharing, I will answer the question. "Is it actually possible to have good sex with a man with a small penis?" Yes Virginia, it is possible if you are a sexual being and not easily confused.

Sex is enjoyed in the brain; the size of a breast or penis isn't the important part of its enjoyment.

But if the brain thinks size of said organ is important, then it IS important.

Lack of imagination lowers enjoyment. It follows that women enjoy sex with men with small penis, and men enjoy sex with women with a small breast. They climax, and it isn't based on size.

If you think sexual pleasure is about climax you are missing out.

But actually my point was that perception is major part of sexual enjoyment. And you alluded to imagination. Some people, for whatever reason, are turned on by various physical (and other) aspects of their partners from hair colour to amputations. There is nothing intrinsically wrong with being turned on by the size of a penis, even disregarding the actually mechanics of the sex act.

To disparage someone else's personal sexual tastes is not the sort of thing I normally expect from you CI.

amputated penises is the worst fetish, IMO...

I find it acceptable in lesbians Rocky .

I agree that perception is a big part of sex enjoyment, and that all happens in our brains.

Cool. So it's acceptable to you that someone could be turned on by the thought of a big penis?

I think you would agree that the feeling of a large penis in your anus would feel different to a small penis in your anus? So I'm guessing that it's not much of a leap to imagine that they would also feel different in a vagina? And then, given the infinite variety of individuals on this planet it would also be acceptable to you to think at least some individuals with vaginas would prefer one of those sensations over the other?

I guess I'm repeating myself. But I don't think anyone is particularly at fault for what they desire/require for pleasurable sex, as long as no animals are harmed in the making.

hinge wrote:

I never said such a thing, but your imagination is running away from reality.

Sorry CI, I was inferring it from this you wrote:


I don't think that was an unreasonable inference.

I agree with CI. When you start talking about girth, length, or whatever, it seems you are in the market to buy a car, hotdogs or boat or some other symbol of your superiority. Sex is personal, and to degrade it as if it were a lego project seems to me you are looking for cred and not enjoyment.

Brett Favre (I think that's how he spells his name) was all over the talk shows tonight (not in person) it has become public knowledge that because he was trying to interest some woman who had been ignoring his calls, emails, facebook crap,or whatever, he decided to seal the deal by sending her a picture of himself lying on a bed, naked...well ok he was wearing a pair of crocs, and masturbating. I can't imagine what he was thinking, but I'm guessing he figured no woman could remain uninterested after seeing his manhood while festooned with only a pair of crocs.

I'm aware of the male fantasy that women think bigger is better, but can any actual women on this thread tell me they would be flattered to receive something like that on their IPhone? Maybe some do, but if I were a man, I'd run as fast as I can to avoid mingling with anyone so shallow...of course the flip side is, if any males on this thread think that's a great way to attract women, I'll just pray that your parents never find out. Really folks, just because it comes up in a porno flick, or in a raunchy comedy, that's not a guide on how to impress folks, it's strickly for entertainment.

a) I don't think it's a male fantasy, more like a male dread given the amount penis enlargment spam I get.
b) Women clearly think bigger is better to a point. Vibrators aren't needle sized.
c) How can you link a preference for a certain penis size to Brett Favre's dickhead behaviour? That makes no sense.

This would be my reaction:

I've laughed for three minutes just imagining the image - masturbating in crocs huh? What kind of idiot doesn't take off his shoes before he gets in bed?

We were just having this discussion at work because there's a new guy and we're having a Christmas get-together dinner and they were telling him about how much fun the other ones have been.... people get pretty smashed drinking all those neon colored shot drinks of whatever it is.

And they were telling him about the last one and this guy Andy who is Scottish and first of all - I can barely understand what he says when he's NOT drunk but he was very drunk and he was sitting across from me and he got this big plate of meat - we were in an Indian restaurant and it was the mixed grill or something and he says to me: Rebecca (rolling the R) wud yu lak tu ate ma met? (Would you like to eat my meat?)
I said, 'No thank you Andy,' and returned my attention to my sag aloo- and then he got dessert which was two little scoops of ice cream with this tube-shaped wafer cookie rising up from them and he says, 'Rebecca - wud yu lak to suck ma tube and have a lik of my balls?'

And I just looked at him and said, 'Andy - why are you saying this to me? I'm just trying to eat my dinner....Oh, I know .....it's because I'm the only American here and we American women are supposed to be sexual freaks-right? Well, you forget - we're puritans and on top of that my dad is a Baptist minister.'
I was KIDDING! But I didn't realize, he believed me - he told the guy yesterday that my father was a Baptist minister so don't try anything on me at the next dinner - and I said, 'My father was not a minister.' He's like, 'Yes he is - you told me he is...' and I just said -'I told you that so you'd stop talking about your tool at the dinner table Andy.'

We're still friends - he's the source of a lot of laughter for me - but when I got home and told my seventeen year old daughter about it, even she said 'He sounds pretty immature.'
So does Bret Favre.

*Edited to say - I didn't intend for this to sound like a male bashing post. I like men and their senses of humor - and actually don't even give much of a thought to the size of their you know whats. That's their business and I'm sure they do just fine with what they are given - just like us women who were not blessed with big bazooms have to do (unless we want to end up looking like Barbie or someone).

Also Glitterbag - thanks for giving me my laugh of the morning. Masturbating in crocs - priceless.

Masturbating with a pair of crocs? ...not even Steve Irwin would try that.


Aaaachoooo!

It's not that I particularly love talking about this, it's just no-one asks the question so I thought I would. I don't care about the reputation of my e-persona.

Human penises are much bigger than they need to be.
That suggests women do prefer larger, and hence the evolution, and the number of enlargement products Hingehead orders online.

Perhaps healthier, well developed men are larger than malformed, poorly nourished ones, making the larger member'ed member of the tribe the better reproductive choice.

(Dadpad, gold! as usual)