@Caroline,
In Herman Melville's masterpiece Moby Dick the hero Ishmael, after a particularly harrowing period on the ocean, prays to the heavens that the ladies back home will turn their wicks down or at least trim them a little and thus render the necessity of looking for oil less trying.
We men want little ourselves. It is the price you ladies demand for satisfying one of those wants, and simple enough to accomplish it is, that drives this roller-coaster you are complaining about. So it ill behooves you to castigate us when we are only trying our best on your behalfs.
But we are easy targets I must admit. If you spoke with such vehemence to the ladies who consume the most, as I suggested you might, you would get pelted with turnips.