It is alarming but not surprising how little study has been done on how people in the real world navigate sexual consent.
https://www.psychologicalscience.org/index.php/publications/observer/2014/december-14/blurred-concepts-of-consent.html
According to what little work has been done males tend to operate on a opt out consent model, which is men believe that we are free to make a move, this is we do until/unless we get rejection, where as women are more operating on verbal opt ins. Or at least this is the claim from journalists summarizing the results, and journalists have credibility problems in general and on talking about controversial subjects where the elite have taken a stand in particular.
I dont buy it though, in my experience women also operate on the opt out model, and are non verbal. And when I look at movies I see sex more often negotiated on the opt out model than the opt in, and as we all know Hollywood is a very liberal town, if we cant get hollywood to substantiate the feminist view does that mean that the feminists are full of it? And it is not just America, for instance I just watch Blue is the Warmest Color which is a French movie about young lesbians...with lots of sex, and I dont see the women using a lot of words, checking constantly about consent.
Interesting that in the link above we see that even today 75% of those women of college age who the elite say have been sexually assaulted deny the claim, they say they were not assaulted, and they generally say that both parties messed up with confused consent.