Hey, Can A Woman "Ask To Get Raped"?

The work task is the 9th step, only if the other person wants to hear it and it doesn't harm them.

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They ruin their own lives by committing rapes.

Maybe, if they are racked by guilt before turning themselves in. If not the ruining of their lives comes from turning themselves in. We have a duty to seek self preservation, and when the collective is shown to be vengefully unjust our moral obligation is to not subject ourselves to the injustice when it is possible to escape the injustice. This is why Roman Polanski was morally right to depart America.

got any documentation to support your assertion?

The fourth step in AA is we are willing to make amends except when to do so would harm others.

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The work task is the 9th step, only if the other person wants to hear it and it doesn't harm them.

that is logical nonsense...it is not possible to know if they want to hear it until you approach them and tell them what is on your mind, and you have no way to know how they will take it, if it will harm them. I should hope that AA is not promoting such Clap-Trap, but IDK...got any documentation to support your assertion?

My second reaction was what is wrong with the victim who would still desire vengeance over a harm done to her 20 years ago.

By putting rapists in prison--where they belong?

Putting a man in prison for a deed 20 years in the past is a wise or even sane used of limited resources?

The "deed" was a serious felony that could have gotten him life in prison if he had been tried right after the rape occurred

◦For rape defendants sentenced to prison, the average term imposed was just under 14 years. About 2% of convicted rapists received life sentences.

because they finally wised up to how serious a crime it actually is!!!!!

Now, now Intrepid "his sovereign self"

I guess he forgot he is the one that used the term sovereign self.

At some point sex crimes will once again be considered relatively of little concern of the state...At some point we will once again treat women as adults and expect them to behave has responsible adults....

She is throwing mud, as she has nothing else. She and Firefly both hope that they can discredit me by painting me as not one of you, but rather as a freak. What they both fail to understand is that my interest here are the same as everyone else's interest, which is to protect the sovereignty of myself from the attack upon it which comes from the team of the Feminists and the State. Even those who dont agree with me that it is time to put a stop to the erosion of individual rights none the less understand why the loss of rights is a concern, and withhold the right to stand up for protecting their own rights at some future time if they decide that they need to. No one is going to willingly give up control of their lives to the State once the state dictates start to run counter to individual needs, which has already happened for me.