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STNGfan;21832 wrote:First of all I would not be fear mongering here about how sex is evil and all that crap so she would already tell me when she is sexually active. One I see her with a solid boyfriend we take a trip to planned parenthood and put her on a pill. It is idiot parents like you who tell their kids not to have sex and not protect them and then they get an abortion to hide it from you. You would never find out about it.
My daughter will be on the pill age 14-16 depending on when she chooses to be sexually active. I have absolutly nothing against teen sex. I had sex myself at 16 and never regretted it for a second.
I would not let my daughter have sex in my home because that is just too wierd for me to have my daughter getting some boy off in my house but I am not going to punish her or make her feel bad if she has sex somewhere else.
If she is on the pill she has no need to ever have an abortion.
If she accidently got pregnant on the pill or whatever she would be open enough with me because I would never make her feel ashamed about these things with crap about it being sinful and all that garbabge. She will know that it is natural to feel this way at this age.
We would have a very long talk and have all options open including abortion. I would highly discourage abortion but if that was her choice. I would take her to the Planned parenthood myself and if I could hold her hand during the process.
I will not condone bringing a child into this world that is unwanted. I do not care if it is killing a life or not.
I grew up as an unwanted child. I was abused, neglected and molested. I grew up dysfunction and on the system. I later discovered that I had Post Trumatic Stress Disorder and was on Disability for a very long time.
I will put no child through that and if that means I have to put it down to spare it the life I grew up as. Than so be it.
I would condone my daughter killing a fetus.
It is not my grandchild until it is born. A child is a born being. A fetus is not a child or a baby. It is DNA...with no brain waves or consciousness that makes it a full human yet.
again..My children will be well protected by sexual education and being on the pill and this is unlikely to happen.
Unlike idiots who teach abstanince only and then their kids get pregant and have abortions behind your back.
HAHA..
good parenting.
Quote:First of all I would not be fear mongering here about how sex is evil and all that crap so she would already tell me when she is sexually active.
Sure she would. So what do you tell her, sex is good and she should whore around? Have as many partners as possible? You think it ok for her to have sex and not be in love?
Quote:One I see her with a solid boyfriend we take a trip to planned parenthood and put her on a pill.
Why wait? Who's gonna tell her what the pill does, you or planned parenthood? "Her dear, swallow this so you don't come home pregnant.
Quote:It is idiot parents like you who tell their kids not to have sex and not protect them and then they get an abortion to hide it from you. You would never find out about it.
This would apply if i had kids, Not!
Quote:My daughter will be on the pill age 14-16 depending on when she chooses to be sexually active. I have absolutly nothing against teen sex. I had sex myself at 16 and never regretted it for a second.
How many girls did you screw before you met ms. right? How many do you hope your daughter will?
Quote:I would not let my daughter have sex in my home because that is just too wierd for me to have my daughter getting some boy off in my house but I am not going to punish her or make her feel bad if she has sex somewhere else.
Back seat of his car is fine? What about if he brings his friends for four or moresume? In any case, like you have stated, it is not up to you. If she decides to have sex in your home you shouldn't have anything to say. It's not your decision.
Quote:If she is on the pill she has no need to ever have an abortion.
I guess you can always hope she remembers to take it.
Quote:If she accidently got pregnant on the pill or whatever she would be open enough with me because I would never make her feel ashamed about these things with crap about it being sinful and all that garbabge. She will know that it is natural to feel this way at this age.
So would you condone her killing your grandchild?
Quote:I will not condone bringing a child into this world that is unwanted. I do not care if it is killing a life or not.
How tolerant of you. Even if she didn't want it you would not take it? How could it be unwanted, it is the result of a commited act that is required to bring another life into this world.
Quote:I grew up as an unwanted child. I was abused, neglected and molested. I grew up dysfunction and on the system. I later discovered that I had Post Trumatic Stress Disorder and was on Disability for a very long time.
I will put no child through that and if that means I have to put it down to spare it the life I grew up as. Than so be it.
You would take there life yet you don't have the balls to take your own? You sure have alot of pity for someone that cannot decide or defend itself. So your pretty much saying some one should of taken your life to relieve you of all that misery? You would of considered them doing you a favor?
Quote:I would condone my daughter killing a fetus.
It is not my grandchild until it is born. A child is a born being. A fetus is not a child or a baby. It is DNA...with no brain waves or consciousness that makes it a full human yet.
You've already stated, even if it was born you would murder it.
Quote:again..My children will be well protected by sexual education and being on the pill and this is unlikely to happen.
How many parents do you think have said that?
Quote:Unlike idiots who teach abstanince only and then their kids get pregant and have abortions behind your back.
HAHA..
Haha, won't happen to me, that i can garantee, you on the other hand? What is the difference between behind or infront? Oh you want to be there to hold her hand. To bad you don't feel that way about your grandchildren.