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Feelin UnSexy (Need to fix it)

 
 
onyxelle
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 07:11 pm
what is 'go vanilla'?? i only know that term in relation to bdsm kinda stuff??
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sozobe
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 07:11 pm
OK, I understand you better, onyxelle. If you don't feel sexy and you don't want to have sex... I dunno, porn? Razz
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sozobe
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 07:12 pm
"Vanilla" means just plain ol' missionary position regular boring (but not that it can't be fun) sex.
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Craven de Kere
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 07:14 pm
ehBeth wrote:
I always thought it had to do with the hormones that must be jumping around in a particularly lively way.


That is the reason given (if not descibed that way) in every study I have read.
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sozobe
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 07:19 pm
How long have you been married, onyxelle?
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msolga
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 07:21 pm
sozobe wrote:
"Vanilla" means just plain ol' missionary position regular boring (but not that it can't be fun) sex.


Thanks for explaining that, sozobe. I didn't know what it meant, either. You learn something new every day! Very Happy
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dyslexia
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 07:24 pm
If you don't feel it, don't do it.
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 07:25 pm
there's some interesting information here click

The site's a bit, hmm, political, but interesting nonetheless.

Quote:
For many women sex during their period is necessary and beneficial. Many women have found experiencing orgasm(s) during their menstrual period relieves menstrual cramps. This is because the uterine contractions of orgasm helps expel the menstrual fluid and relieves some of the muscular tension in the muscles of the uterus, caused by the hormone prostaglandin. Many of these women rely on masturbation to produce their orgasm(s), feeling they are or should be unattractive to their partner at this time. Others just are not in the mood for partner sex, in an active role, but know the benefits of orgasm. Some women experience a marked increase in their libido during their menstrual period and as a result crave partner sex. While some postpone sex until after their period others aggressively seek out a partner. This increased sex drive is the result of hormonal changes and perhaps because a woman knows she is not pregnant, and is much less likely to become pregnant during her period. A sexual free for all. Some men and women are attracted to menstrual blood and desire their partner the most when they are menstruating, a little vampire fetish. For these reasons sex and menstruation must coexist.



Vampire fetish?
Whoa, baby!
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Ruach
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 07:25 pm
Your husband is making you feel bad, too bad for him. Can't he satisfy you without penetration? Is he inept at this ambition?hehe. Put your own steam in and get him to respond to you. This may not fit you but I wish it would fit into all marriages. Men we need you.
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onyxelle
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 07:32 pm
okay...i've gotten

baths, showers, blind folds, (i just took a bath). i guess i'll see what goes down he comes home.
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onyxelle
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 07:36 pm
soz: 2 years. but i don't want you to think the fire has gone out or anything silly like that...it's not him, or his ability to satisfy me (which is not lacking) or my want to do it....it's the sexiness that I DON'T feel while i'm on my period that's a thorn in my side. I don't necessarily feel bad about it....but I think it sucks (lol no pun intended) and I can't seem to find my inner sex fiend while i'm on my menstrual. maybe it's hormonal, like that site says....

maybe i'll invest in some those female stimulator things for use while i'm on my cycle...although I don't really know about libido heightner drugs.... maybe i'll give it a try...
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 07:42 pm
Do what makes you feel good, onyxelle. That's the best piece of advice I can think of. ENJOY!
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onyxelle
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 08:17 pm
thanks ehbeth....i'm 3 winecoolers sexier right now lol
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Montana
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 09:53 pm
I guess we're all different, but if I don't feel like it, he waits until I do, but it's been a long time since I've been in that position.
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Mr Stillwater
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 10:17 pm
And which particular position WOULD that be, 'Tana? :wink:
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Butrflynet
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 10:19 pm
http://i.xanga.com/Jemah/beav_lg.gif
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roger
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 10:35 pm
Ummmmm, I don't think that's exactly what he had in mind, Butrflynet.
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msolga
 
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Reply Mon 24 Nov, 2003 11:49 pm
Have fun! Very Happy
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Ceili
 
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Reply Tue 25 Nov, 2003 02:05 am
Very Happy
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SealPoet
 
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Reply Tue 25 Nov, 2003 05:48 am
Do what you do, only when you want to do it. Make him wait... he'll ravish you later! In the mean time, I'm sure he can find something to do to relieve some of his pressures...
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