@fresco,
Your reference to 'independent of others' is interesting.
If you mean by "independent of others" that 'self' needs "others" to be "complete" then, yes, 'self' is "independent of others". 'Self'
is unified and doesn't need support, love, affection, or agreement to stand in a clearing.
If you mean by "independent of others" that I can live on this planet to the exclusion of others then, no, "I" am not "independent of others".
The wording in the last 2 paragraphs was purposely specific. 'Self' was used in the 1st paragraph and "I" is used in the 2nd because "I" and "self" are not the same. "I" and 'self' are independent of each other. You can be the ground your 'authentic self' walks on and 'Be' that ground while walking around the planet with "others". You just need to stop confusing your 'self' with the world you live in.
The only time I have a problem 'Be'-ing my 'self' is when people like you demand that I act like them. Then I have to deal with or ignore your 'bullying' tactics.
I decline your request to suspend my "conversation".
You have absolutely no control over what anybody posts on this forum. However, you do have control over what you read and respond to unless you don't have any control at all.