@Chights47,
Chights47 wrote:If you say anything of value to anyone and it registers in their mind.
I know what I'm going to say is extremely hard to swallow, however, what I'm saying is that you have absolutely no say in anybody's life but your own. There is no "it" to register in their mind and since we're on the subject, there is no mind. There is no "it" that will EVER cause change. There are only individuals making distinctions and declaring new possibilities. If by chance what you have to say coincides with some perceived change it is because you just happened to come along at the right time to support the change initiated by the person approximately 3 months prior to your encounter.
If that person attempts to give you 'credit' for the change, they are mistaken. If you attempt to give credit to someone else for the change, you are mistaken. To assign 'false cause' is to deny that you are the 'creator' in your life.
No matter how much you 'admire' someone, no matter how much you speak with them, and no matter how 'valuable' what they have to say is, you are always the one making distinctions, declaring new possibilities, and doing it on your own schedule.
In an 'instant', outside of time, humans, 'Be'-ing, make distinctions on their own and they declare new possibilities for living, 'Be'-ing.
'Change' doesn't happen the way you suggest.