@Robert Gentel,
Thank you so much for this attention to detail it has bee a real eye opener and very very useful.
You sound as if you really do have scope and a better brighter future for in in mind and matters beyond my full comprehension.
This quote of you is basically all what I am interested in at the moment.
"If you mean something like when voting down you select a "reason" (e.g. spam, trolling, flaming etc) it's something I've seriously considered. I even considered an option of "not interested" that wouldn't count as a vote."
Not interested, no vote.
Hide this from me but no foul.
I suppose it is a little to much to ask that someone explain themselves for an aversion as so many seem to have so many.
But as said I am just sore because I am in desperate need of analysis and constructive critique and this feature just gave the sense that you can be critical but have no compulsion to justify yourself.
Back home you could not be taken seriously if you did not at least try to if you denied something to justify yourself you were quickly no longer taken seriously.
It just felt as weak willed and bad form but then I started this topic and found that it was not as bad as I had thought.
I am grateful for all of you and of your attention that has shed some more light on someone still groping around in the dark.
I should not have been so overly emotional about it, but that is kind of how I roll. I am a emotionally rationalising reactional, person.
If I could change the title of this topic I would.
But it just cried out for the down to be countered with am up.
I still don't like it very much, something about the whole action of a negative gets me confused.
I have not really gotten out there just yet so am still unaware of many features and nuances but am now fairly confident in the spirit of this place to help someone who is in need.
And this makes me feel that little bit more secure.
I will in the future take my time but this still has been a great exercise for me today and I thank each and every visitor and contributor for making me feel viable if not justifiable in my reaction.
I am a slow but keen learner and just cant wait to really start to try and prove I am worthy of partnership in such an ideology as this and what you are attempting sounds truly inspirational if not totally original.
Because from what you have described this is the word that springs to mind PARTNERSHIP.
You have my best wishes that it is a viable construct.
And while I am here you have the fidelity of someone who wants nothing more than to call this place his home.
All the best and if there is anything you need help with just let me know and I will always give it and you my best.
sometime sun.