@Mame,
I care about popularity because I need to be critiqued, I am an aspiring writer and unless I either get the inspiration or exposure my place here is mute, because I will not be getting the training and experience I so sorely need.
Do you see I need to be in the popular area because it will get me more action and participation and give me more chance to muse, create and write.
I may very well have it ass backwards but that is because no one has of yet convinced me this is a right way to be doing things.
From what I have seen I also think it is great here apart from this. So far?
I miss my previous home but do so wish to make this new one mine.
Just trying to do D.I.Y and house keeping before I lay down my rugs.
I hope it is a serious consideration to do away with this gripe of mine.
I don't care really if someone does put there thumbs down to me as long as they explain themselves and as it is apparent that I get a thumbs down for no particular reason at all I am not sure which is worst, that they saw and read me and did not like me or that they just do not like my form or context or for the silly reason they want an unbusy screen.
As said I am pretty off the wall sometimes.
But it dose make me wonder would I prefer to be disliked than ignored.
And I understand I will not be to everyones tastes but I do so wish my position was not demeaned by the fact of disinterest rather than a genuine dislike.
Do you not see my point at all?
I really do need my stuff to get out there as I do WORK in places such as these, you could even say it is part of my profession to be a forum goer.
All the best and thank you so much for the welcome.
Are first impressions the best way to judge someone?
If so I hope you have not compartmentalised or me myself to much just yet..
My task is to grow, still a little pot sore from my move but am definitely seeing good soil to grow and encourage others growth here as well.
Great to greet you.