@kennethamy,
kennethamy wrote:
guigus wrote:
kennethamy wrote:
guigus wrote:
ACB wrote:
Zetherin wrote:Wait, and what is your issue here?
Two things. Firstly,
I have no idea what "possible father" (or "father candidate") means. Can we have a non-circular definition, please?
Secondly, statements such as "my father is not necessarily my father" or "my father has not necessarily become my father" commit the fallacy of equivocation, since (as I have explained) they use the term "my father" in two different senses.
Did you ever have sex with a woman? (Or, if you are a woman, with a man?) Did you take precautions? What reason would you have to take them, besides disease prevention? Wouldn't it be that having sex with a woman puts you the position of being a
possible father? (Or, if you are a woman, a "possible mother"?) Or you still don't know what I am talking about?
Possible fathers are not a particular kind of father as is generous father or reluctant father. "Possible fathers" are just males who might become fathers under certain conditions. The trouble is that you are reifying the term "possible father".
Did you notice that your arguments are becoming increasingly far-fetched? So lets dig in: did you notice the essential difference between "generous father" and "possible father"? Let me remember you: the first is either a possibility or an actuality, while the second is expressly a possibility. But you have problems with possibilities, since for you they are not real, right? So for you anyone that takes a possibility seriously is "reifying" it. That is, if your girlfriend tells you to take precautions before sex, you tell her: baby, you are reifying this possibility...
Oh my! Why am I discussing anything at all with this chap? You think that a possible father is like a tall father. Let me just point out one difference. A possible father need not be a father. But a tall father need be a father. Therefore, no possible fathers are fathers. QED.
Then answer me, chap: what a possible father is? Nothing? So there is no possible father, only actual fathers, that's what you would say. The guy was born a father. The world is a series of actualities, right?
The problem is that, in the real world, an actual father must have become a father at some point in the past, right? So he must have been a
non-actually possible father once, otherwise he could never
have become an actual father, don't you agree? So at some point he was a
possible father
without yet being an actual one, otherwise he would never
have become an actual father to begin with: he, precisely,
couldn't have become an actual father without being first a (non-actually) possible father. And you are right: a possible father does not exist
in the same way an actual father does - either one exists in its own way.