@plainoldme,
plainoldme, when I was growing up we had home cooked meals every night, and those meals always included vegetables and salad. My mother tried to stretch her food budget when she shopped. She would generally go to three different supermarkets a week because each of them had different food items on special sales. Our meals were all made from scratch, with no prepared mixes or ready-made items, so more of what we ate was fresh and unprocessed. My mother was very health and nutrition conscious. She was appalled that any mother would serve junk, like KoolAid to their children. In my home we drank water when we were thirsty.
But my mother didn't work during most of my childhood. So she had the time to shop, and plan, and prepare meals. Even when she did start working, she was home early enough to prepare a complete dinner.
Today, many mothers work. They don't have a lot of free time to shop or prepare food, let alone plan meals in advance. They are often tired at the end of the day and may opt for something fast and easy--frozen dinners, takeout food, fast food, pizza, prepared meals of some sort, or packaged mixes like Hamburger Helper, or instant mashed potato mixes. Consequently, many families and children are getting less in the way of truly home cooked meals, less fresh food, more processed food, more food that's higher in fat and calories, fewer vegetables, and just less of a healthy balanced diet. On top of that, a good many families no longer even sit down and eat dinner together every night. Everyone may eat at a different time, with each of them grabbing something different.
So, the changing role of women, and more women in the work force, may well have contributed to a change in our eating habits and patterns, and our food choices.
When I was a child, we didn't have shopping malls filled with food courts. Now when you go shopping, you are constantly tempted by the aromas and sights of food, most of which is rather unhealthy. You watch TV and you are bombarded by images of food, most of which is high fat, high calorie, or high sugar. You go into a supermarket and you find an entire aisle devoted to cookies lining the shelves on both sides of the aisle. And a long aisle devoted to soda and drink mixes. Another double-sided long aisle devoted to bags and boxes of chips and snack items. Another aisle has bags and bags of candy. Supermarkets have gradually expanded in size over the years and have devoted more and more shelf space to items of minimal nutritional value which are guaranteed to pack on the pounds. You go to the movies and the concession items have expanded in size--big tubs of popcorn, big sodas, big boxes of candy. Restaurants serve huge portions of food, and entice customers with all-you-can-eat bars. Fast food restaurants are everywhere. And lap-band bariatric surgery is a booming business.
We are constantly assaulted by images of food or the presence of food. People are no longer eating just when they are hungry, they are now eating or munching, or drinking something, a good bit of the time, for reasons that go far beyond hunger. And, when we do eat, many eat far too much. We no longer eat to feel merely satiated, now people eat to feel "full".
The problem isn't just whether we're eating too many carbs, or fats, or sugared items, it's also that we're eating way too much. We are surrounded by food all the time. Our abundance is also our undoing health-wise.